Hello. I need dating advice because I really don’t sound or act the way I look. I’m nigga with dreads and over 6 feet and it would be one thing if I sounded like a black nerd but I instead sound like woody allen without the nyc accent. Additionally, I don’t fit the mold of a confident black guy. I’m neurotic and also have aspergers with the same interests as a “culturally literate” millennial (I’m a zoomer). I’m incredibly anxious that I’m basically catfishing my personality. To put it in another perspective- Women imagine that you matched with someone who looked like david foster wallace but he sounded like chet hanks. Men do the same except uhhh shelly duvall and woah vicky. I would be annoyed! What should I do? Should I start sending women voice notes? Preface texts by talking about me being weirder than most? Or is this self sabotage??
