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So sometimes when I go to shop at my local grocery store, there's usually a retard standing right at the entrance asking people (including me) for money.

How do I deal with people like this?
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>>34447440
Ignore them. They don’t matter, don’t waste your time or energy on people who bring nothing of value.
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>>34447547
God that is one sexy looking asian girl. What's her contact?
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>>34447440
Either give them money or don't give them money.
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>>34447440
That's loitering
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>>34447440
Just ignore them. And or if you have a snack give it to them.
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>>34448296
>if you have a snack give it to them.
I dunno, man. Some of these people are fucking rude and feel entitled to my money. Like they get annoyed and angry that you don't want to give them money. One of them literally told me, out loud, to go fuck myself when I was walking out with my groceries that I paid for with my money, that I wasn't gonna give them.
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>>34448331
Would be scary if they had a gun.
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Many years ago I used to have to walk to the Supermarket to buy food, it was very difficult, I had literally no transport (except an expensive Taxi)

I also find social situations scary because I felt I did not fit into this country and knew I wasn't a citizen.

I remember being SO angry one day and watching American Psycho for like the 5th time, then it rewired me and I spent the rest of that day in spite because I felt like I had a reason to (unfavourable situation, feeling like people are shitty to me, no control over anything)

So I put on my puffy jacket, my silly red striped black track pants, my velcro shoes, and I left the house. When 8 arrived at the Supermarket (they suck and I hate their shop) I don't remember what I bought or if I bought anything but I remember this androgynous gypsy in a parka who would wait for people to finish using their trolleys so he/she/they/it/whatever could take the coins out and buy alcohol with them.

I remember being hungry, dehydrated, and miserable. So I went outside and started to unwrap a chocolate croissant I bought and when they came to me to see if I had trolley change, I just stood there and ate the thing in front of them without saying a word for what felt like 5 minutes, then I walked home.

My point is basically just, ignore them.
They're not going to be confused because when you see them hanging around there, do you ever ask yourself "Why are they wearing that?", "Why do they want little change?", "Where do they live?", or "Do they not feel embarrassed?"

That was the conclusion I came to personally, either way, just put yourself before others; if you feel guilty then remind yourself that their life doesn't depend on you and they already have multiple impressions from all the people coming in and out.

If it's not guilt, then just tell them "I don't carry change, sorry" even if it's not true. LOL.
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>>34451163
>then just tell them "I don't carry change, sorry" even if it's not true. LOL.
Hmmm
>be me
>charging phone at the library and minding my own business
>retard walks up and asks if they can borrow my charger
Ummm



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