you do know that the more partners (especially sexual partners) a woman has had, the more it's likely a relationship with her will be unstable?

>>34447905
Put a baby in her and abandon her. The cuck husband will raise it. That's your best option.
Waiting for her to get divorced and then being with her also an option. I won't judge you for doing that either. You just need to speed the divorce process up somehow.

>she needs money for gas I'm the ATM
Stop being an ATM and see how long the rest continues

Also wtf disgusting behaviour from everyone both of you kill yourselves

You should show both your behaviours to the husband to speed up the divorce process xoxo

>>34449716
The difference is most simps don't actually reveal they have feelings for the thot. So they give all this money and randomly go "by the way you should date me!" which throws women off. By being upfront OP has an advantage over the typical incel storyline

>married young
Impulse buy?

>>34448363
For crazy women the number is zero. It doesn't matter how much of a virgin she is if there’s nothing good in her to begin with.

>>34450880
There is no advantage because he was already rejected and yet he still throws money at her. Nobody should throw money at anyone unless it's complete charity with zero expectation of return, or a transparent exchange of value. Neither situations are either of those, as there's an expectation that "love" can be bought with money. But that's a "love" for your money, not you. If everything happened without the money aspect, then the likelihood that they love "you" would be higher (not 100 though), but with the unequal money exchange, the likelihood drops significantly.

OP here. She said its going to be months and months before she's ready to date and that she wants to be a cat lady and all this nonsense. Its looking bleak

>>34452347
op the gigasimp

OP here. She chose her husband over me. I want to die.

>>34447905
>I'm the ATM
You're a simp

>she says he's filing for divorce
I guess it worked out for you. I just wonder how much time will it take till she finds another simp orbiting her to destroy your future marriage with her.

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>>34447905
You think the comfort and money you provide is not what she's there for, line the other anon said, it could very well be and imo most likely is what she's there for. You're an ATM and an emotional tampon and I'm not sure which is worse because being an emotional tampon for someone else, and having a girl use you for emotional masturbation essentially, defeats your spirit and your sense of self in all regards. It breaks who you are. And it's so fucking difficult. Speaking from experience as a guy who loves to give and previously lived for someone else. On multiple occasions throughout my life.
My man, what do women do with tampons? They use them to soak up their discharge, and then they discard them. If the tampon isn't working they get a pad instead, or is the period is not there anymore, they stop using tampons all together.
It's the perfect analogy; you're a tampon for her, and the best thing you can decide to do for yourself now, is to shoot your hail Mary, and if it doesn't work - respectfully bail for your own well being and betterment of your mental health.

Good luck my nigger

>>34452635
>OP here. She chose her husband over me. I want to die
I have no sympathy for you my man, none at all. You did that to yourself. Now either learn from your stupidity or go extinct.

>>34447905
>Tell her straight up I have a crush on her
>still wants to be friends
>don't want to fuck this up
you already did

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>>34452635
Of course she did but don't worry. It takes a few of these before they will divorce.

You are still in the game very much. Your down a few points but it's not even halftime.
You need to do everything possible to disrupt and undermine their marriage. She obviously has feelings for you. Man up and try to kiss her one day, even if she pulls away it's a win. Never listen to seriously about her feelings, just keep telling yourself and her that you will be together one day. You can do this OP. Imagine how good it will feel, after a long battle to win her, how good that first time you thrust your penis into her. Just focus on that for your meditation. I have faith you can do this. Just always project supreme confidence to her that you two are meant to be a couple. No simp energy.

>>34452909
Wrong.

OP here. She wants me to watch. I think I'm going to

>>34452909
She came into work and before I said hi she said "you're going to hate me..."
There was no question of what her news was so I said "you went back to him?"
And she nodded.
That was how my day started and I feel like shit. And my only silver lining is that at least she's happy.

>>34452783
I won't. Because I have what's known as Limerance. And its so easy for people like me to fall in love but its very hard to move on.

>>34447905
>I tell her anything she needs she can call on me
>she tells me she needs some time
>tell her good morning today
How can you be this dumb

>>34447905
yoo this nigga wants to be a stepfather and a good buy cuck for some two timing slut.
You're 21, stupid, all the flirty married whores have "abusive husbands".

>>34453039
The sheer amount of people like the ones in this thread who have never had pussy yet have the gall to make fun of people for trying to, are the reason you have doubts. That's why moving on is difficult. You're so insecure you actually give a fuck what so anti social sociopath has to say about the types of people you're trying to date.

>>34453120
>not buying into some slut's abusive husband spiel makes you anti social

@34453039
>Limerance
Oh goddamn it it's this clown again.
ABANDON THREAD, IT'S THE EVENING SHITPOSTER FROM R9K'S LETTER THREAD

>>34447905
>>34453104
Just relax for the time being

>>34453126
>multiple people can't have a similar mental illness

>>34453125
Implying perhaps that a young woman married to an older man can't be abused? Yeah. You are totally dialed in. Fingers on the pulse eh?

>>34453147
dude she's openly flirting with other guys while married, and is also using OP as workplace betabux. She is a run of the mill whore and she deserves the abuse.

>>34447905
>Please. I can't fuck this up.
OP, you fucked it up long ago

>>34452635
Retard

>>34453197
Yes Saar. You fags need to realise sooner or later people are people.

>>34447905
I'm sorry OP, I really can't sympathize with you much here.

You knew she was taken, yet you insisted upon it.
You simped over and over and over again, showing absolutely no pride or self-respect.
You acted like a vulture, waiting and hoping for things to go wrong just so you could swoop in later.

I feel bad, I understand how it is, but you shouldn't be acting the way you did towards a married woman.
Besides, this may sound cruel, but you need to have some pride, don't act like a doormat and an ass-kisser.
People in general don't like that sort of stuff, although many will take advantage of it.

>>34453504
>i can't sympathise
>i feel bad

>>34453561
Yes, as in, I do not condone or find his actions and behavior on this scenario to be justifiable, but I do feel bad for being harsh with him, and I do understand how it is to feel in love.

>>34453601
Condoning actions isn't sympathising.

I just have this thought in my mind. I've been nothing but nice to her and I genuinely do care about her. But when it comes down to it she chose her abusive husband over me. And I just keep thinking how bad must I be? Am I so low on the pole that an abuser is preferable?

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>>34453621
It's not you anon. She is the mentally diseased whore. Stop engaging with her, do NOT give her any more money and let her breath on her own. In the meantime, talk to other girls. You should be able to move on in a few months.

>>34453621
This has nothing to do with you or him being bad. You don't really know these people aside from what she tells you and what you chose to see.

But you should know, desperation and simpish behavior will yield no respect from people. It's off-putting, specially to women. Again, you need self-respect. Don't go out of your way to throw yourself at anyone's feet.

Just clean your hands from this situation and focus on your work and your life. Distance yourself from her, and don't look back. Keep relations cordial if needed, but formal.