Gf wants me to get a vasectomy and honestly I think about doing it a lot. We dont want kids. i have enough stuff wrong with me that the next person down the line would resent being born, and my gf would probably die trying to give birth anyways.I spoke with some of my other female friends and theyre all saying that i should get the vasectomy instead of making gf alter her body. Weighing pros and cons... vasectomy would be easier and way cheaper than having my gf go on birth control or get some other procedure done. Its not intended to be reversable but idrc bc i dont want to have kids ever. I guess im making this post because theres still a part of me thats scared to go through with the procedure.Have any of u gotten a vasectomy?
Why would you do that to yourself? Dumb fuck idiot holy shit.
>>34450494Because i don't want kids. Are you illiterate?
>>34450503I don’t have a vasectomy and have used a condom like thrice in my life. Guess how many kids I have you fucking retard. Please get a vasectomy.
we do use condoms, gf is terrified of pregnancy. we are not currently raw dogging it rn. Another part of why she wants me to get a vasectomy is so that we don't have to use contraceptives
>>34450524I'm not sure why I keep getting psych'd out by the thought of getting a vasectomy. It logically makes sense for me to do it given all the facts but I'm too much of a pussy to start taking the steps needed to get it done. I don't get what the hell I'm so scared of.
>>34450489I would say don't, but they're your balls. Do what you want with them
>>34450580Figure out if you're scared you'll change your mind, scared because of possible complications, or if you're just being a pussy because it's your balls. Until you know why you're hesitant you're just going to keep going in circles.
Don't. You'll see yourself as less of a man now that you surgically can no longer procreate, even if you don't want to.You and her may not want kids now, but ya never know. Maybe freeze sperm if you change your mind at least?
>>34450580Actually do proper research (not /adv/) about possible downsides to a vasectomy. I've heard it can kill your sex drive. I'd say talk to a doctor, but they may have a benefit on selling you a vasectomy. Well, maybe talk to your regular doctor, but not a specialist.
>>34450489If you don't want kids just don't have sex, retard
>>34450489If you don't want kids and you're sure you never will, you should definitely do it. There will be a bit of discomfort for a few days, followed by the inconvenience of having to go in and provide a semen sample once a week for a few weeks. After that, you won't even notice the difference.>>34450938>I've heard it can kill your sex drive.Bullshit.
>>34451133>BullshitFrom people who have had the procedure done. But again, this is also why I told OP to do their own research. 2nd hand info from the internet and all.
Break up with your gf
>>34450489Your girlfriend is preying on your low self esteem to convince you into castrating yourself like a dog. Think about that: She sees you the same way as a dog owner looks at their dog and wants to cut its balls off. The amount of disrespect required for that is insane. What are you going to do when your GF leaves you? Which she will by the way, because she will change her mind the minute she notices all of her female peers and relatives post their babies and families and she feels left out. She will obsess over the fact her eggs are running out, and after having noticed you are sterile like a dog, she will leave. And you will be all alone with nothing to show for it, not even your own masculine potency.Is that truly what you want?
>>34450734>>34451183>>you'll see yourself as less of a man>>She sees you the same way a dog owner looks at their dogPromise?
>>34450489Saved that pic kek
>>34450489N
Self-mutilation on behalf of pleasure. Degenerate shit.
>>34451183incel. this is why you would never have a gf like op
>>34450489No but I would like to. I have to take care of my aunt's children with my mom only 2 days per week and there is not a single time I've been thinking into either shoot myself or get a vasectomy asap.I already dealt with kids and a crazy woman enough, I don't want to live this shitty experience anymore
>>34450489Don't. That's a shittest to see how easily manipulated you are. She lose all respect for you if you agree to this and whatever little sex you get will dry up completely. Just say no, you don't believe in this kind of unnecessary surgery.
