I wanna be someone people talk to out of anything but pity, I always feel everyone at work talk to me because I am in their heads depressed, is it posible doing this change and how ?should I stop saying senteces that start with IShould I?
>>34451159There is self positive and then is others positive. Do you actually have interest in what the other people are talking about or are the conversations always about you and your things? If you can find a real joy or at least some real interest in what others are saying that helps. Even if you don't really care, ask probing questions which might teach you something. I usually don't care about what other people are talking about unless I share the interest. However I have gotten a bit better at feigning some interest and sometimes that leads to real interest. My reason for feigning interest is because I know it feels better to be listened to that to have my topic dismissed and I think it's better if I can spread that sort of positivity to others. I actually now for real want to be someone who is a positive sort of person because I know that feels better so sharing that is nice.Are you depressed in your own head?
>>34451172I do care a lot of what people think in some way, only about people thinking im depresed as that is not the case, I am not I just wanna coexist with others without being weird I sometimes enjoy hearing others and it comes out naturally, but most of the time I cannot mantain eye contact I know there is a script people use to talk that does not sound selfish or self centered.
>>34451159https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5AQS_B-zA3Q
