Why do I only seem to form bonds with bi/gay women? It seems that as I've gotten older I've found less and less mutual attraction from women who are straight and it's slowly shifted to bi/gay womenThe latest was basically my dream woman, physically my type, we get along and share mutual interests sexually and personally, she's down to earth and level headed, not toxic. Turns out she has no romantic interest in men.I dunno what to do, I'd like to marry someone to grow old with but fuck this cycle of meet woman, connect, get friendzoned hurts.
>>34451225>bi/gay womenThat's all of them. They say they're straight and then i show them topless pictures of sydney sweeney and they go all crazy over her.
>>34451225The less self respect you have as a man, the more you will normalize chasing after the affections of half-hearted women or women who do not respect you or don't particularly care about your efforts. The "out of reach" girl. And once you normalize this type of girl, you will consciously or unconsciously remain attracted to her, and if you do that for long enough you will tell yourself all women are like that. And you'll get stuck in your own emotional knot. And we know that's exactly the type of women you had normalized because now it's gradually shifted into bisexual women/lesbian women, aka, women who will not or cannot give you themselves fully.
>>34451301>ContTake the lesbian girl for example, the one you call down to earth. Out of good faith we can say yes perhaps she is. She could make for a fine friend. But you missed the big clue: >Shares your sexual interestsWhen a woman shares your sexual interests, what does it tell you? Now remember three things:1) She is a woman2) You are a man3) Men and Women differ sexually in their psychologySo a woman shares your sexual interests, what does it mean? It means she is lesbian or bisexual. Because if she can see the sex appeal in female centered fetishism or sexual thrills that revolve around the female body or the female orgasm, it means that's what she thinks about all day too. It's a dead giveaway. The only time this rule is not applicable is if the girl is heterosexual yet extremely insecure and needy and only mimicks your sexual appetite to win your favour to get in your good graces to win a relationship with you. If you want to find the girl who isn't like the ones you keep getting stuck on, you need to stop fawning after them, stop bending over hand and foot to please them, stop caring how they think it what they may think, just care about how they feel but also prioritise your own needs first. Women who only have eyes for men seek men who think and act like grown men. Women who have their eyes on different, they don't want the self actualize man. Because the idea of following it giving herself to a man, for some reason, makes her feel angry or uncomfortable. Aka father issues
>>34451305Nta but I learned the hard way that a woman open about her sexuality is extremely messed up and are single for a reason. I'm more interested in romantic pair bonding where sex is a tool for that and I thought women would share similar views on sex whenever I brought it up. They did not.
>>34451778Yeah it's one of the first life lessons. There's a second insight to that lesson: The women who are extremely "open" sexually aren't even doing it for the orgasm. They're doing it for the validation, to live up to some fantasist vanity they have inside of their own heads to feed some insecurity in themselves. And the reason those types of chicks are not into the romantic pairbond is because that would implying caring about someone besides themselves for 5 minutes. And they don't wanna. They get their ecstasy and validation highs in their teens/twenties but when it runs out, they'll notice everyone ran away from them. They get to enjoy living with their mom in their 30's with no caring husband and no kids to love them as if she were their hero.
