>>34451381
If you accuse him of rape, yes he will go into a fit of rage because he will perceive you as a threat to his way of life. (Rapists get punished, imprisoned, killed). And he will also be angry because he will feel falsely accused. Because he is with a girl who tells him it's okay to penetrate her as she sleeps (leaving his dick inside you as you sleep). That's why his dick is inside of you to begin with, it was a penetration. You agreed to have penetration as you sleep. And so now you claim he raped you. Because he penetrated you as you slept.

????

>>34451381
Why were you having nonmarital consensual sex?

>>34451381
That wasn't rape, you're just hungry for drama and self pity. Assuming that this isn't bait at least, which it probably is.

>>34451388
>>34451381
Anyway there's no need for drama. The adult thing to do when something is uncomfortable even if you initially agreed to it is just tell him you would like to stop doing it, because it makes you uncomfortable.

>falls asleep with penis inside willingly
>gets mad at sex while asleep
you do know how retarded this sounds?

just push him off and tell him you'd rather sleep if you don't want it
or start fucking
that's what my gf does
if I were to wake her up with some consent question bullshit she'd tell me to fuck off and she'd be right

>so far i havent told him
there is nothing to be gained from this conversation. he's going to feel guilty or annoyed over literally nothing

That's just unrealistic. It's a nice idea, to fall asleep with his dick inside after sex, very romantic. But men wake up with an erection. Sadly men just aren't evolved enough to be able to take a second and stop in that situation, only maybe 1/1000 men could accomplish that. I am older than you and KNOW men. They are low inhib in the moment sex golems, for the most part. You are just setting him up for failure.
Cut the porn shit, no more falling asleep with dick inside or sleep anything. Tell him you are setting new boundaries so you can keep loving him and not fight. Rule 1 is no sex if you aren't awake. I know free use is a hot idea but you are a human being and not every moment is sunshine and rainbows sexxo. It's not realistic, as you just realized.
I believe you were assaulted but because of the way you set up the situation you can learn from it and prevent it from happening again. It's on you if you want to stay with your boyfriend or not and work through it. I won't suggest to break up but I don't like that you are afraid of your bf's rage. You should be able to talk to him if you are sharing intimacy.
On the bright side you learned something about yourself, you don't like that shit

>>34451388
>>34451397
can you at least try not being misogynistic pricks for a minute?

penis inside = penis inside
sex = penis inside + thrusting + consenting people

i consented to penis inside while we sleep, not to be used while i am unconscious. if the victim was a male you'd be vouching for him, lol

>>34451406
I think he should ask for your consent before each thrust, just to be safe

>>34451406
>can you at least try not being misogynistic pricks for a minute?
There was no misogynism there. And I am going to stop trying to help you now because your post shows me that you have already decided your boyfriend is a rapist, your mind is made up and you predetermined the accusation. You baited him into feeling okay to have penis inside you for sleep and after he got comfortable with it, you accuse him of rape. Emotional manipulation and a set up. To what end I don't know but I suppose it's because you really enjoy the identity of a victim, even if that means fabricating it for yourself.

Most of you retards won't survive one fishing season.

>>34451434
>I get bullied at work now I project on 4chan

lol

>>34451434
Why not?

Why are you being schizo and not acknowledging my nice thoughtful response to you? You trollin?

>>34451403
>Sadly men just aren't evolved enough to be able to take a second and stop in that situation, only maybe 1/1000 men could accomplish that.
>Because we wake up with erections

Yeah that's right we choose when to have an erection on command you see, like a flick knife or something. Every single time I had an erection it was all fully conscious decisions. I am being sarcastic by the way could you tell?

>>34451437
I don't get bullied, I am the bully.

>>34451438
Your affinity to bait, anon.

>>34451406
>Penis inside = penis inside
And how did that penis get inside in the first place? Oh that's right, someone consented to having a penis inside of her to fall asleep to and he had to push that into you and embed it inside of you. What is called "penetration". That's what you wanted and/or allowed. Did you say he could thrust? No. But no one and I mean absolutely nobody sane or rational needs to be told when to thrust when penetration has already occurred. Because normal people will assume
"Oh she wanted me inside of her throughout sleep. She must really enjoy that/get comforted by it/get turned on by it."

"Hey maybe if I give her a thrusting to wake her up in a sexy way she will be happy that I took initiative and get turned on or feel like her needs are being met."

And that's most likely what he did. Except you instead cried in front of him and now you are accusing him in your mind if being a rapist for some reason. Are you aware of the signals you put out to other people femanon? It do you honestly expect for people to revolve around you and your whims without you so much as having to set boundaries? Is that too much work? You want him to ask you every single time he dares to sexually approach you? Like you're his grumpy strict mother? "Please mom, may I cup a breast? Just a breast."

He's gonna lose sexual excitement for you very quickly and soon his emotions will go with it too. Nobody enjoys walking around eggshells especially if that person is explicitly inviting them to walk across a field of them knowingly only to accuse them when something goes "crack". Get your head sorted

>>34451444
... normal healthy men wake up with boners

>>34451457
>normal healthy men wake up with boners
Yes. But that was not my point, I was being satirical at the other anon for being admonishing men for the crime of boners lol. Boners are never chosen. Men wake up with boners because they happen in sleep. Do you think mean are capable of decision making during sleep? Do you think we can file tax returns while snoring in deep sleep or something?

>>3445145
My question was bait. Welcome to the fish market nigger

>>34451381
>today i cried in the bathroom without him telling him.
kwab

>>34451381
Femanon here. I dont think you can call this rape. I also think you need to set the boundary going forward that he cannot leave his dick inside you when you're sleeping because you obviously cant handle the obvious outcome of sleeping with a dick in your vagina. If you tell him not to have sex with you when youre asleep and then he does then I would call that rape. Sleeping with a dick inside of you is having sex- youre upset because why? You were sleeping as he awoke with a boner, saw your naked body - the woman he loves - he already has his dick inside and started thrusting?

The whole idea that was rape is an insult to women who have been raped. He stepped outside of the boundary you were comfortable with. You only found out there was that boundary until after it happened. Thats what relationships/ sexual exploration is like. You just need to communicate your feelings and for your sake DO NOT accuse him of rape or even insinuate rape

Calling this rape is insulting your bf. Just break up with him and spend the rest of your life with the "rape victim" badge of honor.

>>34451501
Yeah this. To add onto it and simplify it for OP's dumb ass to digest from my male perspective:

>>34451381
Here is what should happen:
>The man who you call "boyfriend" or "husband" is allowed to approach you, touch you, make a move sexually. At any time within reason (within reason meaning: not as you're trying to do something important or you are in public. Only within a domestic context of comfort or something, alone 1 on 1).

The woman is the allowed:
>To say "No."
>To say "not now"
>To say "maybe later".
>To say "Not at all."

And the man, assuming he isn't a raging retard will say "Ah, okay."and he stops and dials it down. Maybe if he's cheeky and good at recovering from rejection will say "I'm definitely gonna try later though" if he's a good sport.

That's how this sort of shit is handled and should be handled. Man gets to make whatever move he likes without stupid fear of being accused as some rapist for the crime of being attracted to the woman he loves, woman gets to say no thanks and the man abides by that respectfully and no one has to cry about it.

And if you're not in a relationship with a guy who can take rejection maturely then you're either both young as shit or you have chosen a retard.

>>34451629
I would add on that if a woman keeps rejecting advances she should be broken up with though. If you're not attracted to your partner, you shouldn't be with him.

>>34451768
>I would add on that if a woman keeps rejecting advances she should be broken up with though. If you're not attracted to your partner, you shouldn't be with him.

Depends but mostly I agree. Only exception would be if there's some sexual disorder or hormonal issue or health issues at play, fair thing would be to actively work together to seek help for that rather than break up.

>>34451381
Will you people PLEASE get better bait? This is just pathetic. Really pathetic.

>>34451381
Not rape lol

>>34451381
Shit like this is why I hate women

Good troll

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>>34451381
Is this a troll thread?
You were in a consensual sexual relationship, and sexing your body in his sleep is as natural for guys as automatically humping the bed while dreaming.

>>34451415
kek
>>34451406
you have to admit it sounds a bit retarded lol

>>34451501
you sound quite logical for a female ngl

Bait but does a good job because people actually do be that thin-skinned/weak-willed these days; is a good parody

>>34451381
If his dick was inside you you were already having sex.

>>34451406
You're a fucking idiot