I've always felt pretty capable of handling stuff on my own, and a lot of the worry my family and my s/o have about the world being dangerous felt kinda imaginary and like something I wouldn't really run into.I told my bf about how I keep seeing homeless people on the drive home from work, and how it's been kinda cold out. We have a lot of spare blankets, so I was going to keep some in my car to give to any homeless people I saw in the cold.He didn't like that idea, told me it was dangerous. Said that I should just drop the blankets off with Goodwill or something.I told him I wanted to make sure that those homeless people in particular got the blankets though, and he started telling me how dangerous they could be and he proved his point by pinning my arms down with one hand.I knew that guys are a little stronger, but I imagined there's still be room to struggle against it and get away if there was trouble.Now everything just kinda feels like a lie. Half the people out there could hurt me and they're just being too polite to do it? How am I supposed to go back to normal with this new worry in my mind?
>>34451950God made man, but colt made man equal. Buy a gun and learn how to use it.
>>34451950Your bf is correct and made the right call. Also yes, most men can just clock you and kill you an in instant which is why finding someone with high impulse control is extremely important.
>>34451950>Now everything just kinda feels like a lie. Half the people out there could hurt me and they're just being too polite to do it? How am I supposed to go back to normal with this new worry in my mind?You have just unlocked and insight that all females without autism have known since age 3. But do forgive yourself there's lots women don't seem to understand about us men. Women don't understand that one of our primary emotions is anger. We are hardwired to fall into anger and aggression when faced with sudden stress, because that's how we needed to be during primitive times. Because stress back then was either:>Hunting animal for food>Fighting another man to mate guard>Fighting an enemy to defend woman and child>Required to use aggression to hit trees, break rocks, and use physical strength to build. Every man you have ever known and ever met has that in him. And every single day men have to suppress it or censor it to remain as civilised gentlemen. Every single day femanon. And there are those who don't suppress it or censor it, they use it at every single turn they get in life. And you can tell which type of man does this. It's the man who has ruined his own life and is out on the streets. Alcoholic, drug-addicted, only cares for money to feed short sighted habits. No control over his life, no control over his innate aggression or anger. Now mix that in with the lesson your boyfriend physically taught you. Remember the strength and size difference and burn it to memory.Now do you understand why your family and boyfriend are protective?
>>34451961>God made man, but colt made man equal. Buy a gun and learn how to use it.You ever tried to teach a girl how to shoot? They just wimp out because of how loud and potentially dangerous it is. Last girl I tried to teach she was hiding and peeking behind the door of the house while I was trying to show her shit in the yard.
>>34451994OP clearly considers herself to be a bit different and stronger than the average woman. If she's too much of a wuss to shoot a handgun, then it's not her biology making her less capable of defending herself, it's her mentality.
>>34452014We're talking about the sex that shrieks when they see a spider, man. I ain't holding up hope OP can shoot a gun. But if she wants to prove me wrong and impress her boyfriend, she should learn for sure. But inab real situation where it's needed she will need to fight her female impulse to fawn or freeze during adrenaline rush as women are so often doing in do or die situations.
>>34452014A gun will probably help you in homeless situations but it won't do shit outside of that when surrounded by multiple men who just want to beat you to death or worse.
>>34452025Nta but it can still help if you get one good brutalizing shot into one of them, the rest tend to scatter once they see death showing up. Rationality and logic goes out the window at that point even for most men. The only men who wouldn't run after watching their homie take a bullet to the chest would have to be military or ex military. And chances of one of those trying to jump a lady are slim, because they're disciplined men who can control their aggression.
>>34451950I had a fiance onceShe worked with homeless as part of her psych studiesThey raped herAnd then she tried to kill herselfIts not a jokeThose subhuman vagrants cant be trustedI wish they were all dead
>>34451950>Half the people out there could hurt me and they're just being too polite to do it? How am I supposed to go back to normal with this new worry in my mind?100% of the people out there and 100% of the animals out there could hurt you if they wanted to. Even a little bird can peck and scratch. You simply have to accept that life is temporary and that there are no guarantees. Other people may be stronger than you physically, but meekness and non-contentiousness is a source of mental strength that can never be broken.
>>34452032If this is true I hate psychology now. Did they actually leave her unattended with a pack of homeless dudes with sociopathy?
>>34452031It's better than nothing, but it isn't an equalizer at all. It doesn't change that anyone, especially a woman, shouldn't be in those areas.
>>34452054>It doesn't change that anyone, especially a woman, shouldn't be in those areas.I grew up in those areas as a man, I had no choice personally but I get what you mean. Even the children in those areas are vicious little bastards lol. I heard a local 12 year old once talking about his school crush, a girl, he said as a "joke">I'd love to take a knife to her asshole and cut her open then fuck the wound Slums and ghettos is where psychopaths are born. No fucking clue why middle-class richer people think it's a good idea to come into the territory.
>>34452032This is why I hate the homeless now. No matter how much you try to help, it is never enough. They don't want your kindness. They don't give a fuck about you. Homeless people are fucking niggers.
>>34452046She actually had a bodyguard escort guy that was hired by her department that was supposed to go with her (which is why I was ok with it)That day he called out sickAnd she thought the homeless would be ok and went out anyway since she had been working with them
>>34452096Sorry for that, I mean that. Can't imagine how that shit must've been for your side of things. Society really fucked up women's sense of danger and convinced them they're Katniss from Hunger Games or something. Though can't blame your ex, these psycho types they're genuinely wicked pieces of shit. They know how to get someone close is to pretend to be nice to them and then they just wait for their chance. Growing up in a shit hole myself that's the thing outsiders don't seem to understand the worst thing you could ever do is be kind, because people from the streets they take one look at that and they think "This is an easy resource to exploit."
>>34451950So yes OP, if you continue to try to go approach a pack of homeless people who have drugs in their system and a hair trigger rapist's temper, most of them carrying some type of weapon on them, and most of them never getting with a woman for years since the last time they sorted coke off of tits, if you want to go among them all by yourself thinking your super special kindness is going to change their minds and their lives in an instant like you are female jesus or some shit, you are going to be in for a nasty surprise. Please be sure to educate your fellow woman to respect the men who actually give a fuck about them
>>34452127Thanks anon. It was some time ago now. I try not to think about it but I don't want someone else to go through what we went through. Please be careful, OP.
>>34451950lmao fucking hell are women truly this retarded? at least your bf seems like he isnt a retard lol
>>34451961TRUKEFPBPREAL>t. Hood denizen turned middle class>>34451950A gun is how you a 4' petite woman keep a 7' predator from hurting you. GloccMaxxing
>>34452268>what we went throughdidnt you say you had a fiance 'once' so like in the past, or does we mean you are still together now,also while its obviously not a thing to happen to you, the person that got majorly hurt was your fiance and not you
>>34452295Nta but I'm going to guess you are a female. Only females say this:>while its obviously not a thing to happen to you, the person that got majorly hurt was your fiance and not you.Heard this line so many times from females. You don't get it and never will. I will try to repeat it one more time: Us men, when we love a woman, we will genuinely, 100% unequivocally take a bullet for you. We don't say it or get all mushy about it, but when we fall in love one of the first thoughts we have as men is "oh fuck. Now I gotta die for this one." We prepare ourselves to spill blood just to make sure you keep yours. Whether that's losing our own blood or taking it from any enemies. And if his woman is brutally raped or viciously attacked and he wasn't there or was unable to defend, we sink into the most powerless and excruciatingly vicious self hatred and unresolved fury and bloodlust with no end to it. We have a high tendency to leave, not because we hate the woman or she has shamed us for being raped, but because we instantly designate ourselves as failing to protect the one we really cared about the most. And if we fail at that we tell ourselves we've no business being with that person, we blame ourselves for it happening and we decide we are better to leave since we have failed our very role of our masculinity. What good is a shield that cannot even defend the person behind it? That's what we feel.Obviously none of that is true it's just trauma talk. But do not underestimate how it can affect the male psyche. Men suffer when their loved ones are hurt.
Men get killed by homeless men.There are men with your mentality. Walter Masterson for one.
>>34452379>>34452295>Cont And I already know your response femanon"If that's how men really feel then that's why they should stay, the girl was hurt and needed protection the most at that moment, the man should not focus on his own feelings he should focus on hers. She wants to feel safe & she can't feel safe if her man is distant".Am I right in guessing femanon? Well that's the thing: Men care more about your safety than women care for their own safety. That is why some women ignore or disrespect men who try to protect them. "Too overprotective." "Too controlling". "Chauvinistic." Women will shame men for wanting to protect them and keep them safe. And then when the woman defies her man, and gets brutally broken down, she demands the protection. Then she wants the man's safety. Even though she had it and defied it, some girls even spitting on it and treating it as a joke, when they get raped or assaulted they look everywhere for their man their protection to save them, and because the woman has ran from his protection, he can't be there. The men tried to protect but the women won't follow behind. And then the man blames himself for it, and that's why he can't or won't try again. Because he feels he fucked it up last time. He will even blame himself for not being able to convince his woman to listen.
>>34451950Stupid bait but Reaction time. They can't hold you down if they can't catch you.
>>34452420>Women >Reaction times Lol. Women have a 34ms delay of reaction. That's not me making shit up, women have 34 milliseconds worth of delay. If you have played fighting games or did physical contact sports, that's huge. That's the difference between life or death in some situations.
>>34452425Feels like you're assuming I let strangers get close enough to me for the reaction time to be negligible. That's also a mistake. If he's within 30 feet of me I'm already fucked. Reaction time, vigilance. the only way I win a fight is if I avoid getting into it in the first place. I fucking hated California.
>>34452428>Vigilance Now we're talking. A skill most women don't have. They think they do though, but their vigilance only seems to start and stop at watching the eyes of men staring at their ass or tits. If you ask a woman to detect who the house burglar is, or who the mentally perturbed psycho is, she won't be able to spot it. The only time I've known women to develop that skill is only after they've been a victim to something, never before.
>>34452379that still doesnt change that the woman got raped and you literally didnt, are you too retarded to recognize that actual physical harm is worse than just second hand psychological harm lets say your brother dies in a car crash, this will obviously not be nice experience for you, but i can guarnatee you that the experience is a lot worse for your brother with actual high physical harm, in this case death even a retard should be able to understand the difference
>>34452497You still don't get it. I'll put it to you like this:If a man and his beloved woman are held captive. And they're told one will be raped, but the man must choose. He will choose himself.If they are asked someone is going to have their skull caved in with a hammer, but the man must choose either himself or his woman, he chooses himself. Every single time. Not because he is brave but because he is scared. Because a man would rather take the hits than see his woman hurt. Because to a man who loves a woman, watching her hurt causes him 1,000% more pain than if he had taken the blow himself. Men are emotional juggernauts, we seem stone like and invincible or stubborn if heart, and we are. But if you want to kill a man inside, target his loved ones. Men understand it, they get it. And women never will.
>>34451950Women are so fucking retarded. I like them anyway.
>>34452538nigger are you retarded? the one who has actual physical harm will be harmed more you dumb simp faggot, that some men protect women has nothing to do with it the person who gets hit by a car will 10000% be more effected by it than a person near to him you actual niggerbrained fag
>>34452096God damn.
>>34452497Also you speak like someone who has neither been near death or tragedy yourself. If you had you'd understand how the near death fight-or-flight trauma response feels, it feels like nothing. It blots out psychological pain and eclipses physical pain. Someone dying in a car wreck won't be processing anything except panic, they dissociate and their mind cuts the connections to pain and distress so that their main focus is survival and getting the hell out of that flaming pile of debris.The living loved ones who watch that person burn alive they're the ones who have to carry the pain until their grave. "The living envy the dead". A true saying btw. You don't know what you're talking about. And that's a good thing if you're a femanon because it means the men in your life have presumably been doing a good job to keep you away from the basic fact that the world is as bad as you fear, it really is as hostile as you worry about. And women who have good men get to create their cozy forever home paradises on this planet precisely because good men make sure you have those safe spaces to do so, using their own minds and even bodies to make sure that's possible.
>>34452579>nigger are you retarded? the one who has actual physical harm will be harmed Have you ever been physically harmed?
>>34451950>but like I thought womyn were supposed to be equal to men!!!Welcome to reality. Thank a man for rules and honor and laws and chivalry and shit because without that yes even a man half your size could easily bash your skull in and rape your corpse into bloody, cummy pulp.
>>34452630>Half her sizeWrong. It's a quarter actually. Here's the video of the 6ft female muscle weight lifters getting beat by the team of all midget men weight liftershttps://youtu.be/f25TH8IW38c?si=i2tcdvDQe0b1p4HJFucking male midgets cleaned out a team of 6ft muscle women lol. And if a midget man can dominate a 6 ft weight lifting woman, it should tell any woman ITT that a 6 ft man if average weight could do far far more. A lot more.
>>34452641>>34452630But Shhhh anon remember we need to pretend women are like Katniss Everdeen from Hunger Games or Danerys from Game of Thrones or whatever female protagonist from their favourite fantasy shows. Shhh women are super strong...
