>>34452084
No ignore her because she is going to become mentally ill and fat

>>34452084
>haven't responded to this - assuming it's dead, lmk if you think otherwise
how would random internet strangers who never saw your engagement with that person know better than yourself
if you just want pity just say it openly nobody here can answer this better than you, since we literally didnt see you

>>34452215
Unfortunately lied to and decieved this way 5 years ago.

>>34452084
Call her out dude. That's what I do. I would ask:
Why do you want to get back to me later?
See what she says, and after she gives you her bs reason you can ask again - why not now? Are you not sure about me?
Literally. Make it easy for her because if she was going to reject you she was most likely going to do it anyway. And in that case, "play against yourself" and get rejected now. I know it seems like shooting yourself in the foot, but it really really isn't. Women don't reject outright, they drag things on for a long time on pretenses of being busy. And being silent. Or unsure. In those times they just hope you disappear and understand on your own and get off their backs. But you deserve better.
Give them the opportunity to reject you now, so that you can respectfully not suffer. And follow your gut feeling. You are most likely correct about how a girl feels about you, based on how YOU feel during your interactions/dates and time spent with her.

Sorry that you got rejected again dude. You'll be alright, that lady missed out. Really.
Later, you'll get a girl that really wants YOU. And it will feel a m a z i n g

>>34452806
Yes, do this. Call her out.

If she is on the fence about you, this is an alpha move, showing her you're not a doormat. It will make her 'gina tingle.

>>34452084
>Can I get back to you later this week about dinner this Friday?
>If you can't this Friday it's fine, we'll do it another time
Simple, how hard is that?

>>34452084
>She soft rejected me with a "Can I get back to you later this week about dinner this Friday?"
If she wasn't interested she wouldn't mention it, she would've just rejected, just say yes, and set another table, she could just be busy, stop being needy.

>>34452992
>and set another table
another date*, oh man, my bad

>>34452084
>just CBT myself anytime a thought of her pops in my head?
I think cock and ball torturing yourself every time might form a complex

>>34452084
>"Can I get back to you later this week about dinner this Friday?"
In what possible way is that a rejection?

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>>34452084
OP do not do what this anon says >>34452084
Specifically what i mean is do not ask for reasurance or "why not now" or any of that. It's needy and will turn her off. Listen dude i didn't see your interactions. But you went out 3 times, she likes you to some degree. You obviously like her. But no one has reached any point of committing here. I say just dont respond for a little while. Let her brain settle in the silence for a bit. If she hasn't said anything by Thursday say something like. "Hey I may have to push back dinner, someone else is asking for Friday" Dont say another girl, she will infer it on her own. And it will land a little heavier because you specifically avoided saying it. Now the frame is atleast neutral again IF its not in your favor.

This is just my dumb two cents though.

>>34452969
Also this could simply be the case
>>34452992
Also this but just a little bit less, women aren't really "busy" for guys they are really into. If they like you enough, they will move mountains to fit you into their schedule
>>34453875
fuck you i laughed

>>34452084
Let’s take a step back. What do you bring to the table for her? You said you dated apathetically, how so? What makes her different?