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I enjoy suddenly cutting them off without any explanation so they are left wondering what did they do wrong, what about you?
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>>34452202
do you have anything else to do than asking on the internet how to be more insufferable?
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>>34452202
I take care of it once the line is crossed.
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>>34452213
take care of it how
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>>34452202
>so they are left wondering
You assume that they care enough about you to be bothered, or even to notice you're gone.
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>>34452202
I go for the classic fight fire with fire approach. Whatever they do, I return it back but I make sure it's returned to then with twice the intensity. But that's only if they meant to wrong me. If they didn't mean it, and they just had a bad day or something, whatever. I only fire off if I figure out they did that on purpose
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>>34452202
That is an effective strategy for keeping shitty people away, depending on the context. It's also something that becomes habitual and turns into pushing everybody away. I think the happy medium is to have strong boundaries that you protect, rather than building an entire fortress around yourself.
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>>34453976
if someone leaves 20 messages asking me what happened or send in their friend I assume so

>>34454277
Yeah not really when someone has a slightly better social status and you can be interpreted as hitler or some shit. Bonus points if it's an foid and they can just come up with the worst shit about you and get away with it.

>>34454287
>That is an effective strategy for keeping shitty people away
exactly

>habitual and turns into pushing everybody away
I pushed away majority of people I've dealt with and left the good ones, I'm just not afraid of losing anyone anymore (unironically, partly thanks to Sopranos and how the show went) and if anything it made me feel better. They don't recognize my worth.

>I think the happy medium is to have strong boundaries that you protect
If it's like a coworker or something then I'm being extra cold to them and don't pretend I'm smiling out of kindness when they're talking about some shit. Really sucks when you think you have a friend but they take advantage of that to mock you, even if you tell them to fuck off they don't do it so you go cold or point out their mistakes and they shut the fuck up.
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>>34454388
>Yeah not really when someone has a slightly better social status and you can be interpreted as hitler or some shit.

Who cares about social status though? Last I checked only women give a fuck about that kind of thing. So long as you are secure in your own status, their social status should not matter. If a beggar wrongs you, you tell him to go fuck himself. If a celebrity wrongs you, tell them to go fuck themself.
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>>34454789
>only women give a fuck about that kind of thing
Yeah exactly, my field is 80% women

>If a celebrity wrongs you, tell them to go fuck themself
except celebrities have cult following that can irreversibly alter your life in a bad way
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>>34454841
>Yeah exactly, my field is 80% women
Yeah and by being afraid of social status power games you wind up thinking like one. And you're better than that, you're a man.

>Alter your life in a bad way
The only thing they can do is assassinate your online clout. When you turn off the computer they stop existing.
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I am a man and not a little bitch so I confront them calmly and directly
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>>34454898
>I am a man and not a little bitch
>I confront them calmly
You're supposed to scream and shout and do a spinning round house kick with fireballs shooting out your dick at them what the fuck kinda man are you?

Nah just kidding you a scary mother fucker for doing the calm and direct approach. It's actually the scariest strategy out of all of them. Because the calmness shows capability to fuck them up if you chose to



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