>>34452247
try same sex
if that doesnt help go to church since you are gay and get over this sin

>>34452247
Who the fuck wants to have friends

>>34452247
Unless you're bisexual, just go for the sex you aren't attracted to
Otherwise... well shit. Ugly people?

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>>34452256
>>34452294
Here's the thing, if it's same sex, my brain kinda goes idc, or want to do it. It's weird like that.
So what do I do/think?

>>34452247
are you a woman?

>>34452294
>Otherwise... well shit. Ugly people?
Well there has to be level (although low) type of attraction in order to be friends, ofc I care about personality more but like, damn I dunno what to do.

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>>34452561
No, bio male, in college
Having a history of making friends before, but always/eventually pushing for more, which brought me loneliness once they rejected for justifiable reasons (like committed, not the right time, ace)

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>>34452286
Because I believe despite status quo being that you S.O. should be your only and best friend; that building a circle of friends is better than just the one.
Plus with friends the standard isn't as high as for a partner

>>34452247
Just try to disengage the conversation if you feel like it's headed that way. Keep it polite and cordial, be helpful... at the end of the day, it all will boil down to self-control.

You can also focus on just the friendly, NON-SEXUAL activities you guys will do together, like, say you'll hang out and watch a movie together with friends, focus on paying attention to the movie and commenting about it later; or if you go, I dunno, skiing or kayaking or something, focus on that, etc.

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I have this problem too, I get too attached too fast. I think you should just settle for one person

>>34452247
Find people with relationships, create a deeply respectful friendship.