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How do you start talking to someone you've been in class with for almost a year now? I want to actually start talking to people. But idk how to start a conversation. Especially if it's a girl. If I randomly go up to a girl in my class and talk won't they think I'm trying to hit on them or something?
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>>34452694
-I missed class last week. What's the assignment?
-How did you do on the midterm?
-I liked the point you made in class
-I see from your books that you're also taking [some other class]. How is that?
-Hi.
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>>34452694
>How do you start talking to someone you've been in class with for almost a year now?
Choose a bit of the course that's hard to understand. "Were you following that bit about...? I couldn't make heads or tails of it! Oh, I'm anon, by the way."
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>>34452694
Those two >>34453974 >>34454035 were good advice for conversation starters. But I do understand your pain man, I also kept thinking about it, how it might seem that I was hitting on someone or something, but I legit just wanted to try and make friends.

Ain't nothing to it but to do it. Sometimes it might not work, but you'll eventually find someone you click with. Talk about stuff you know you have in common, like classes you share, a test you had to take, a teacher, an assignment you have to do, stuff like that, and then take it from there.

Like let's say the assignment has something to do with AI, you can then discuss the assignment, and then talk about your opinion on it. Eventually the conversation might end up going to another topic, and then you commentate on that too, etc.
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>>34452694
>Especially if it's a girl. If I randomly go up to a girl in my class and talk won't they think I'm trying to hit on them or something?
So just hit on them? Why have this artificial divide where you're only allowed to start innocent conversation
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>>34452694
Just ask the person if they want to go out! It's really simple and if it doesnt turn out well the person is a DICKHEAD and you dont need to spend time with them
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>>34454972
1. I don't want to
2. Even if I did want to go out with any of the girls, if they said no I would still have to be in class with them. It would turn extremely awkward.
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>>34454035
They know who I am. I've spoken to them before very little.
But only when I was forced to do groupwork with them.
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>>34452694
>How do you start talking to someone you've been in class with for almost a year now?
I remember, I was really into a girl at highschool. Incredibly slender, short, beautiful.
So, I decided to send many people (indvidually, of course) an email of some shitty knock-knock tier joke, that conveniently was also sent to her
She thought it was funny.
Then I replied and used that as a way to start talking to her (eg. "Wow! You're the first person who laughed at that, blah blah blah"). Which then became in person chats
We became close friends and now have been dating for over 4 years.

It just takes confidence and charisma, desu.
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>>34456309
>It just takes confidence and charisma
True, but that's the hard part.



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