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How do you successfully avoid certain types of people without hurting their feelings?

There are certain people that I just don't like their personalities. They talk about things I don't care about. They believe in stuff that annoys me to death. And everything they do just infuriates me.
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>>34452801
Maybe they desver their feelings hurt.
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>>34452804
Maybe but I'm just too much of a pussy to do it.
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>>34452801
You could stop people pleasing for one thing. If all you do is kiss people's asses then all you will get are people you don't actually like
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>>34452801
Look up assertive communication
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while it's true that you can behave in a generally sensible assertive way like this >>34455722 one said, you have to understand that it's impossible to be compatible with everybody no matter what efforts you place in people pleasing and coping, just state to yourself "I don't like that person" honestly and chop them off your life the most you can
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>>34452801
>How do you successfully avoid certain types of people without hurting their feelings?
Will be following this thread.
I have the same issue. At work people try to talk to me for no reason, I try and be polite and humor them for a minute or two, but I have responsibilities.
After a while if they can't tell by all of my obvious body language that I want to leave, I simply tell them that I have stuff to do.

They get so fucking pissy about it. Holy shit they need to get anally fisted by me. FUCK.
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