Can someone explain how normal non oneitis affected guys find girls to screw? I always am shy, so I mostly ever only fall for girls that are feeling bad about me isolating and are a little bit sweet and then I ruin it by being in love. But before I get to know a girl for several months of warm exchanges I'm not attracted because I don't trust her responses at all. What does a normal guy think? Is it just like "I need to drain these nuts in a blonde/Chinese/whatever type of girl" and you walk around unattached just being forward whenever an interaction with that kind of girl organically comes up in life?It just seems so feral. If a girl you approach knows "oh he just likes a redhead with big boobs" or whatever how can that ever really turn into love? How do you want to risk paying for a date with someone when you have no idea what their values are or if they melt down under pressure or w/e?
It boils down just to whether she likes you or not. You can try everything on the internet, and you could still be empty-handed. The right one for you would simply just click with you.
>>34453451I see a girl I'm attracted to and I ask her out. If she says no, fine, I move on. If she says yes, we go out for coffee or something and I see if I like her personalitywise
>>34453451I can tell you, but you won't like the answer. A normal guy, on average, will have sex with about five different women in his entire lifetime. (A normal woman, on average, also has about five different partners in her life). So the reality is that most people don't have casual sex; they date, get into relationships, and have sex that way. The kind of scenario you're imagining simply doesn't happen.But of course, you won't believe that.
>>34453584like penetrative? if you count bjs & stuff i don't see how that's true
>>34453594Well, I did tell you that you wouldn't believe it. Obviously there are people out there who have casual sex, but they are very much in the minority. You asked about a "normal guy", and the reality is, "normal" guys rarely, if ever, have casual sex, and neither do "normal" women.
>>34454040Did AI tell you that?
