Hello everyone,So I am an American guy with a decently well paying job who is able to travel and work overseas. I am living in the Philippines where I have lived fir 4 years, and been married to my filipina wife for 3 years.My wife has a cuckquean fetish and desperately wants to watch me rail another Asian girl while she watches, she is even considering making this a regular thing with 'no strings attached' at first I was suspicious that this was a trap, but she has been persistent about it for months now and I think she genuinely wants this.Now for part 2. She has a handful of female neices and cousins that live in our house together and work as maids, I am to a small degree financially supporting almost everyone in her filipino clan. I genuinely enjoy their company, but some of the younger maids in the house are surprisingly hot and range from about 19-26 in age.There is one in particular, 24, who I am kind of getting a thing fir, she has big boobs for an Asian. Anyways, I am just wondering if my wife really wants to see me with another woman, but wants it to be 'no strings attached' is it better or worse to keep it in the clan? Will this be better because I am already supporting her and we know and trust her? Or worse because it might cause inter-clan drama?I have asked thus same question on Reddit but they just said some garbage about 'colonial mentaility' and 'patriarchy' and told me to seek advice on polyamory subs, which is degenerate and gay as fuck, I am not some vile luck, I just want to do what is best fir my clan that I care about deeply.Can /adv/ please give me some advice?
>>34453655In regards to inter-clan drama, there have been a few occasions on which people were butchered with machetes. But I do not think this will happen to me because the clan elders really like me and basically everyone is financially dependent on me to varying degrees.My only concern is that if war kicks off with China, this could lead to a considerable market change which might result in me going broke. If I were hypothetically involved with multiple women in the clan, and suddenly lost all of my money, what do you think would happen to me?
>>34453655My advice is to not engage in such behaviors to begin with, no matter what your wife says.This is likely not needed for the well-being of your family or extended family.Be happy with your marriage without having to resort to such things. Don't risk everything for some kink.
>>34453676I agree with this in principle, but this is the second time that she has asked for it, and now she has already bought us plane tickets to another island. We are leaving on Saturday. This island is pretty well developed and there are night clubs there, but maybe I can convince her we should just walk on the beach instead?Keep in mind that her idea is to do this with total strangers, I have not yet brought up the idea to her of involving other females in the clan.
>>34453655Having a cuckqueen wife is a top tier way to live but don't shit where you eat, anon. Only fuck pussy that she approves of. Don't press your luck.>basically everyone is financially dependent on me to varying degrees.Meaning that they're counting down to the day they figure out the pin number on your ATM card. You need to let some of those nieces and cousins go eventually. You need that money to be able to live there without working.
>>34453708I don't really know OP. at the end of the day it's you guys' call. Sorry if it sounded preachy and stuff.
I would have sister wives if God allowed it
>>34453721It does seem like a ridiculously good deal. I have been getting a lot of those lately, the only thing I really want but have never had is a Harem. It seems like a good idea because the 24 year old maid specifically has a white guy fetish like my wife, so I am pretty sure she would be into it.But you are probably right about not pushing your luck, at this point am I asking too much?
>>34453885Asking if you can fuck her family members? People who are stuck with you if shit goes bad?People who know where all your valuables are the only people with a stronger bond to your wife than you?That's fucking dangerous, man. You're pressing your luck.
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>>34453895Most of my valuables are in crypto, but I figure if they wanted my seed phrases they could have gotten them already. If my destiny is to one day get hacked to death by machetes I may as well enjoy myself now right?
>>34453708Your gana fuck up your marriage. Don't bullshit yourself that it's for your wifes kink, you could tell her no. Dont bullshit yourself that its good for your marriage or family. You just want to fuck young pussy.There are about 15 different ways this can fuck up your marriage right of the top of my head. You were warned.
>>34453885You should have a real talk with her about this and ask how she wants to navigate it. Ask also how she would feel if this bangmaid got pregnant. Do you have kids? The bible will teach you that it's legal to have more than one life but ill-advisable. You should not do this. That is what my gut instinct tells me.It is impossible to have "no strings attached" sex especially in this situation. Why are you being so casual about machete murder? Wake up man, don't let your mutual horniness fuck up your life.
>>34453655>There is one in particular, 24, who I am kind of getting a thing fir, she has big boobs for an Asian.And you think it's a given that this woman will be happy to fuck her employer, while her aunt (and employer's wife) watches?
Assuming Serious.1) Roleplay it with her, assuming that goes well, both find it hot as hell, move to step two.2) Selection of others - as it would be bringing another into the intimate situation between the two (or eventually more) of you, that is to be a conversation between all parties on the expansion of the harem3) As for money problems, this is not the same problem, but also the solution of diversify efforts and create a way to bring those you can to safter lands, you're American, why not start finding a way to get the gals over to the US, at least not the ones you'd want to keep as Sister wives but are useful for getting them educated and have a want to keep family both close and happy.4) Although War with China is not impossible, the situation is fluid enough between recent purges within the CCP and external war factors like Iran and Russia to have China take a more defensive posture for a few more years, maybe outlasting Xi and thus a whole new recalculation after he is done with.
>>34453981I told hee no the first time. She kept bringing it up. Thought it was dead, then 2 months later, even when things are going fine between us, she brings it up again. Why dies she bring it up even when we are not fighting and keeps doing it for months unless she really wants to? At furst I thought she mentioned it because she was mad at me but now I don’t know, I am starting to be convinced that she just wants to do this.
>>34453982This is something I think about a lot. It is true that the Bible doesn't say it is a sin to have multiple wives or concubines, that is why I keep coming back to this in my head. Regarding the machete murder, I figure if it happens to me I might end up on bestgore but at least I won't have to make these difficult decisions anymore, and that is only going to happen if my whole clan decides they want it and I really feel like I treat them pretty good and they won't do that to me.
>>34454031OK let me explain here with a bit of information about her:1. She is a single mother with a BWC fetish, we already know That she wants a guy who is financially stable and the same race as me, so I can clearly see how she might be initially attracted to the proposal.2. We are already basically family, yes I am her employer but I am also kind if like her 'Uncle in Law'. If she gets sick I am expected to pay the bills, I have taken her on family vacations as well. We are already family, why does this need to be any different?3. At some point in the future, it will probably be expected that I will need to provide some minor support for her son when he becomes school afe, she may feel more secure and like he will be better taken care of if she has a closer relationship with me.
>>34454094I appreciate this well thought out approach, and I have not thought of the role playing idea before. I understand why you might think this is a LARP but I am actually being completely serious, this is all real and it is difficult to ask for advice in these types of situations.I agree that everyone among the sister wives has to agree before any new person is added or before I am allowed to have any new encounter, I still don't know if this will be a 'random encounters' scenario or a sister wives scenario, personally I prefer sister wives because their is a sense of ownership, but that discussion has not been had yet.I agree with you that some of them going to America is a good idea, the 19 year old already wants to go to America to find a husband. I feel protective of her and the other 3, this is maybe partly why I find myself sexually attracted to them.Right now my goal is to steer my standing with the company to become more indispensable to them the more overtime I can put in the less likely they are to are me. I need this job or I am in big trouble.
>>34453655Yeah the Asian household thing makes it creepy. Personally I think being married and have multiple gf’s is a mistake, they should be treated equally.
>>34454229This is getting creepier by the minute. It's like planning to seduce your own stepdaughter.
>>34454229>She is a single motherfind better
>>34454295OK I am gonna need an explanation on this one.1. I am not biologically related to her.2. I am a different race, from a different continent.3. I cannot speak her language.4. I only met her about 6 months ago when she started working as our maid (the clan is very large, like 100 people)5. She is a struggling single mom who explicitly wants a white guy.I just want to understand where I am coming off as creepy here, genuinely what kind of creepy? It is not like this is an incest thing.
>>34454336This would be a good argument but I am probably going to be expected to provide some sort of support for the kid anyways because she lives in our household, why can I not enjoy the 'fruit' if I am gonna pay for it either way?
>>34454229>>34454219I don't like the sounda this. Smells fishy, man. I mean at the end of the day you do what you want, but I can't shake the feeling there's something odd going on here, doesn't seem like normal behavior. Being so persistent about it also makes it worse.It's usually not a good idea to go looking for headaches.
>>34454345because her vagina is loose, just get a different cousin or a random filipina
>>34454478I mean we are planning to try out the random filipina thing this weekend, so that might work, but their is a part of me that really enjoys 'ownership' and having her in the house fir so long make me feel like she is my property so now I want her.
>>34454442I understand what you mean, but is there any advice you could give on how to do this the right way?
>>34454703You don't do it you idiot. not him, even if your wife is 100% on board the entire way. You will effect how you feel about your marriage wit this. You don't start fucking other people and not walk away without a pyschological difference. Legit low IQ.You are about to change how you feel about your wife subconsciously. But your on here trying to justify a way to do it anyway, so you don't really take your marriage that seriously anyway.
