I met this milf, 10 years older than me, on a dating app almost 2 weeks ago. Instantly we set up a date for the upcoming saturday and since then we've been texting.We texted quite a bit, not super lengh messages, not hours of texting, but still. Some jokes, some flirty messages were shared, etc.But since last weekend, especially since sunday she started being super reserved in her messages. She reads mine sometimes and leaves me on read.I was unsure so I asked her outright - 'are we still up for saturday?', she said 'of course'. We talked logistics, she said 'I'm gonna have to wash my hair after work before our date'.So she indicated we are still on, it's a 'date' in her eyes, but even since then she read some messages from me (some light jokes about her work) and didn't respond.IDK what to think about this.
Busy People, Busy Lives my guy. Keep sending memes and such as you have so she knows you're on her mind.Worst case, you're gonna get stood up, and if that happens, you move on, best case, you don't get stood up and have a lovely time and maybe end up with her making breakfast.
>>34454109>Keep sending memes and such as you have so she knows you're on her mind.That's the problem. I'm one of those people who don't like to beg for attention like that. I require similar levels of interest.IF she told me 'we have a date set up, let's leave the talking for that day', I'd be fine with it.So I don't know, should I ask her why she's not responding and if she just wants to wait until saturday?I know for a fact, she isn't any more busy recently compared to what she had on her head in previous weeks.
>>34454113Some may see it as begging for attention, for some it's showing that you care, that's one of those things that the action can be seen as either way. If that's not how you wanna run, then by all means don't run that way.If you can handle it, why not give a going silent a try, and maybe even diversifying your options, clearly she won't be the only MILF or pretty thing out there.As for when to ask, if she shows up for the date is probably the best or before you two separate from the date maybe the most ideal. Obviously the answer becomes clear if she backs out or doesn't even show up, right?
>OP wants to date his phone instead of a womanlmao
>>34454113Are you not a busy person? Do you prefer milfs that much that you would be willing to not text as much generally? Perhaps someone closer to your age and more technologically friendly would be better suited? What do you think you could offer this person that they would continue to talk to you?
