>go on date with woman last sunday>she's prettier than in her photos>she tells me she's been in dating apps for a short time>we have a good night>we agree on seeing eachother another day>ask her today if she's up for something next weekend>tells me she's really sickIs she lying? Did I bore her out so much? Is she just checking her dozens of other better options on dating apps?
>>34454637I think she's probably sick and you have extreme security issues you need to solve.
She’s probably sick, OP. Get out of your head.
Could be sick, could be checking out. Either is possible and you won't know until you know. In the meantime, give her the benefit of the doubt and wish her a quick recovery. Maybe offer to bring some cold medicine or something, unless she's far enough away that it would be weird.
>>34454637Well, if you’re that insecure about it then wish her well and wait up until she feels better to see if she still wants to hang out.
>>34454637Always give the benefit of the doubt once. But enact a three strike rule. First time is ok, she is probably telling truth. Second time she bails, she's either being untruthful or she got a bad coincidence happening. Third time? Block her.
>"i hope you feel better soon!">hit me up when you wanna hang out againAnd go radio silent. Get another date in the meantime.If she contacts you, you ask when she is free to meet up and set up another date.Do not text her needlessly.
