>Matched with this girl from tinder, talked and joked a bit. >Got a good back and forth going.>asked for her number. Got it>make plans to hang out together on Wednesday night for drinks>it is now Wednesday>I no longer feel like going out>I have to get dressed and drive 20 miles away to pick her up>find a bar, pay for her overpriced drinks and mine too>I dont even like drinking because of hangovers and its a giant waste of money>have to tip 20 percent to bartender for both our over priced drinks> I have to pick her up, drop her off, entertain her, listen to her stories, pay for her tan>all for the chance, just simply the chance to maybe get a kiss or a thank you and a second date to do it all over again>I dont even feel like going out tonight>but if I cancel or reschedule 99 percent chance I will offend her and she will lose interest or move on to the next beta in line. And trust me there are hundreds waiting for my place in it.>I feel like I am my own worst enemy.> I already did the hard part of finding a match, getting a number, and securing a date>but now, I just dont feel like seeing it through.
>2 weeks later>why can't i get a gf /adv/?
>>34455919Not OP, but some bar hopping slut off Tinder isn't gf material and OP's gut instinct is telling him this.
>>34455889You know someone enterprising enough could find out who she is and tell her you're posting her profile pics and name on 4chan, and about your shitty attitude right?
>>34455889>Post pic of potential wife on 4chan>End up going on date with her>10 years later when AI becomes super intelligent and can deepsearch all traces of photos of you>"Oh look anon, there's this photo of me on 4chan!">"Oh my god... YOU posted this about me? We're getting a divorce"!If you ended up going and had a good time, try and enjoy the next 10 years with her.
>>34455889howd it go, OP
>>34455889My entire dating life has been the same way for like the last two years OP kek. I can get matches and even dates, but just don't gaf anymore. My advice to you is to get off tinder and enjoy your life. You are not going to find any worthwhile prospects in that cesspool. Meet a woman organically, and take her out when you genuinely want to. To me personally, even a less attractive woman that I know IRL is way more enticing than some broad off of tinder.
>>34455889I would give every thing. Absolutely everything, to sniff and eat pussy again. The thing is, you're not stupid, you should always operate as a smart person who values his own peace of mind. With girls from dating apps your feeling knows the truth: If it looks like a good lead and feels like a good lead - give it a chance. If it doesn't, then don'tNow let me eat Camille's brown shit straight out of her gaped asshole
>>34455889>I already did the hard part of finding a match, getting a number, and securing a dateWhat are you talking about? That is the easy part.
>>34455889Do a date that doesn't involve spending money. Go to a park, walk the beach, actually get to know her.Will she dislike that? Will she be upset that you aren't spending money on her? Yes? Good. Drop her. You don't need low quality gold diggers in your life. Like, really ask yourself this: do you want to be with a woman who will get mad at you and lose interest in you if you aren't showering her with gifts?
>>34455940>OP's gut instinct is telling him this.he doesn't know it yet, might me autosabotage due to childhood wounds
>>34455889Bars also serve coca cola for non drinkers and you driving is a responsible excuse to not drink
>>34455919fpbp
