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>28yo khhv incel
>the one thing i actually wanted to experience in life was teen sex but never did
>will never be a teenager again
>so i can never, ever, for the rest of my entire life until i die, get what i want
so... just go next?
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>>34455989
you can still fuck a teenager as an adult. find one that has a poor relationship with her father and take advantage.
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>>34456011
that's not the same not even close. i'm dead inside now.
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>>34456013
why not. why isn't it the same. you're still a virgin so it'll be just as awkward and experimental for you as it is for her.
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>>34456017
it doesn't mean the same thing. it's not about fucking prime pussy it's about having the experience and part of that experience is being the same age and being youthful... pursuing an age gap relationship post-hoc will never fill the void left by a youth spent alone fulminating in your own lonely horny tears.
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this is the advice board, not the lamentation board, go to r9k and never come back
faggot
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>>34455989
this thread makes me grateful that I experienced teen love and had sex with my gf at the age of 15/16 otherwise I'd be a grown adult posting lewd anime's on 4chan crying about the past. Get over yourself you whiny fucking jew.
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>>34456041
yeah exactly it's only the ppl who've done it at the perfect time that get to develop such a mature attitude about it. the rest of us are stuck in arrested development for the rest of our lives without any real solution.
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>never did
That's what your life is going to be. A series of don'ts and didn'ts.
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>>34455989
Same man, same. The only thing I can say is please don't let this define you. You are worth so much more than these life events. Life may have given you a shitty deck of cards, but life is still about what you make of it. Please stay strong for your own sake, because you need that support from yourself now more than ever. Please don't give in to the misery, please continue for your own sake because you deserve to have someone love you, and you are the most influential and possibly supportive friend you'll ever have. Please give yourself kindness because you still deserve it no matter what the external world decided to say.
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>>34455989
You didn't miss out on much. I had teen sex aged 16 with a teenage girl my age, 16. You didn't miss out on much. Here is what you missed out on:

>Awkward prolonged french kissing, someone sticking tongue too deep in mouth or for too long. Not even sexy just weird
>Girl is retarded and is fake moaning before any orgasms are occurring, you could blow air on her nipple and she goes "Hueueuerrhhhh"
>Accidentally leaning your elbow on her hair and when she moves while on top of her she goes "OWW! stop My hair OWWW!"
>Girl using too much teeth during a BJ, way too much teeth and you feel like someone is scraping your soul with sandpaper and you awkwardly stand there and hope she stops but you don't wanna say anything because if you do she will cry
>Trying to kiss during missionary sex but accidently smash your front teeth together
>Being over excited during your first time and busting within 10 seconds
>Woman doing stupid shit like biting YOUR nipples or trying to be "sexy" and scratches your back way too hard not in a sexy way in a fucking cringe painful way
>Calls you "daddy" and expects you will be turned on from that (keep in mind you are a 16 year old, you were a boy just 3 years ago and this dumb bitch is calling you "daddy")
>Awkwardly laying in silence after the first time teen sex and asking each other "was it good?" And both of you lying to each other it was the best thing ever

Seriously OP stop crying about it. The only good thing about it is the novelty of having first time sex. And you can get that at any time in life development. A 30 year old virgin will be as excited as the 16 year old virgin during first time.
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>>34455989
You are worth more than your ability to have sex.
That is worth the spiritual journey
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>>34457063
OP thinks teenage love is like in the movies or the heavily romanticized anime that he watches where two young naive people fall madly in love with each other, frolic in the fields and then get married after they graduate high school. Almost tragic in a way how the 'tism will both prevent it from happening (because woman, particularly young women, DESPISE autists) and also cause one to confuse idealized fiction for something attainable and real that only YOU in particular didn't experience.
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>>34455989
Sex in your 20s and 30s is SO MUCH better than sex as a teenager. You didn't miss anything important.
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>>34457136
He missed experience and the low bar of expectations.
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>>34457332
at 28? absolutely not a problem. thats when tons of guys are just for the first time figuring out to not just spit in her mouth and jackhammer thrust and roll off once they shoot. you can start learning how to fuck at 28 and if you pay attention to what she wants you'll be totally fine. bad experience and low expectations are assumed for all 20s sex
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>>34455989
You know OP... You thinking this matters shows how asleep you are. You have no idea the riches that are within you
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>>34455989
Yes OP, you can't experience teen sex if you are no longer a teenager. Just turn the page.
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I traded virginities with my girlfriend at the time, we were both 14.
I'll admit it was extremely visceral and emotionally intense but it's nothing you can't just get from regular sex with a normal fertile woman above the age of 19 tbqh. I think why it's desired so much isn't the ages of everyone involved just the fact of inexperience and shared novelty.

Just find a virgin OP. I fail to see why fucking a 16 year old would somehow magically be better than fucking a woman your age, pussy is pussy. The fact it's causing you so much distress probably calls for significant introspection, if not being able to have teen sex is a major problem to you the I'd be grateful to have problems as trivial as that.
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>>34458200
there aren't really any virgin women who are attractive above the age of like 20 it's either some hamplanet or tattoo'd mentally ill chick, and even those kinds of women wouldn't date me because i'm not like a fruitful well-to-do guy i'm a pessimistic broken by loneliness incel chud and not even the lowest down baddest women would go near me.
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>>34456013
>i'm dead inside now
age is biological
laps around the sun do not determine your age
you can be 120 years old with the biological age of a 15 year old
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>>34455989
>so... just go next?
I'm not going to tell you that you didn't miss out on anything, because that isn't true and it IS something you will never experience how many people do, but consider that it isn't the end all be all.
You can still experience first love, losing your virginity, whatever other novel romantic experiences you want.
Also consider if there are linked things you actually want rather than the standard love life. What you probably want is an authentic connection and shared experience with someone you fell in love with rather than a specific aesthetic. You can still achieve that, just not in the specific setting you cling to.
I missed out on teen love as well and I'm not going to tell you I don't think about what could have been once in a while, but it also isn't worth attaching yourself to a specific circumstance and ignoring the rest of your life because you missed out on X thing in the past.
If you don't consider the ground you are standing on right now in current time and make moves to get to where you want to be you will be posting
>38yo khhv incel
>the one thing i actually wanted to experience in life was 20s dating but never did
>will never be in my 20s again
>so i can never, ever, for the rest of my entire life until i die, get what I want
In a decade
Also the "until I die" part isn't true, that won't get you want you want either. You will just never have that specific experience ever, which isn't as monumental as you think it is. The timing isn't what makes it valuable, it is the sharing that experience with someone else which you can still do, there are inexperienced adults that aren't just you.



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