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I'm a 24yo male virgin, which, now that I am typing it out is only really starting to hit me. I usually don't get self-conscious over stuff like that and laugh when I see younger guys complain about being old. But now I'm having some burst of anxiety that I am in fact old. Like, too old to be using 4chan-kind of old.

Up until now I have always felt that, if I really wanted to, I could approach any women who were attractive to me. Now, going the same university where I have been ignoring freshmen for 5 years,
I can suddenly feel time breathing in my neck, like I am about to miss a train even bigger than teenage love. To put it bluntly I'm scared to miss out on the opportunity to have sex with young women. I guess that kind of makes me a creep but it's really the reason why I'm making this post.

I mean aside from the fact that I needed to get that off my chest I am also wondering where to go from here. Of course I could go on WikiHow and look up how to get a girlfriend. But I'm wondering about some more fundamental questions. I never really wanted to commit to a relationship, but at the same time I want to work towards having a family sooner or later. And like usual, time is ticking and I'm not really prioritizing women in my day to day life. Should I just try to hook up with as many girls as I can? If yes any advice on how to do that?
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here
https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill
https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill_(Supplemental)
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>>34456048
Yeah no offense but I read stuff like that when I was younger and it didn‘t help at all. Gayest shit ever
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>>34456061
cope harder
btw, this is the advice board, the reassurance board is r9k, go there and never come back, retard
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>>34456045
Start by trying something. Anything. Getting a relationship is a lot of work if you're not a 10/10 Chad. You need to try and fail a lot to learn how to talk to women. Right now, you have zero experience so you need to start talking to any cute girl you find. Have small objectives, have them add you on social media, get their numbers, etc. Then you can set bigger objectives, set up the first date, the second one, etc. You need to go gradually and expect to fail at every step. I found my perfect GF at 31 so it's never too late. Good luck anon.



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