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Do women actually lose interest because of what you do, or because you didn’t accidentally do the one thing they were hoping for without telling you?
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>>34456057
Both
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They lose interest when you're not what they thought you were.
Like anything else
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I would guess the actual answer is when they stop seeing you as more themselves, more what they would like to be, than they are
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>>34456057
Yeah
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They lose interest when you show too much affection/interest/emotional investment. In contrast, abusive men are never single
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>>34456057
Typical incel asking the wrong questions. It's not about isolated things like what you did or didn't do. It's about what you represent in her life, or who you are in relation to her. Are you a winner or are you a loser compared to her? Do you make her feel good or do you make her feel bad?
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>>34456057
yeah, but most are very wide concepts
it always comes back to "i felt he didn't pay enough attention to me"
"he kept liking insta thot girls stories when I told him I didn't like that"
"I told him I didn't like him to drink every single weekend, he told me he was going to change but he never did"
it's never stuff like "he cries during movies" or "he leaves the sit up"
yes sometimes they say that but the "he leaves the sit up" is more like the straw that broke the camels' back, he was probably inconsiderate in many other regards, the sit became a symbol.
same as "he cries for x reason", she probably thinks he's bottling his emotions and letting them out at weird timings (and girls don't like when guys bottle things up because they don't know when they're going to explode and what that explosion will look like)
etc
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>trying to apply reason to how women think
ishygddt
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>>34456057
Don't worry about that. Just make your move and see if it works. The desperate girls will take anything, but think if you want a desperate one.
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>>34456057
They lose interest because they’re not getting pregnant, which is their body telling them that you are infertile.



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