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My cousin is 20 and claims he is sexually attracted to pre-pubescent children and he argues that its because of his hentai addiction, because before 16 he never felt attracted to children or even girls his age, he only felt attracted to adult women.

He says he wants to stop feeling attracted to children. He says he wants to stop masturbating or looking at any type of hentai or porn and see if it changes anything, but he's scared that it won't. I told him to get therapy but he's afraid that his parents will find out.

So is it a good idea for him to get therapy? Would abstaining from masturbation and porn be a better solution?
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>>34456122
Probably. He should follow what is legally okay. 18 or 16 in certain states, different areas of the world it is legally and morally okay to be lower than that. He should just move to where is socially and legally acceptable to be that way if that's what he needs.
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>>34456122
He has two paths. One is to eat lead. The second one is stop porn completely. His brain is completely fried, he needs to reset his dopamine triggers. Have him do No Porn for a few months and go to a therapist, it should help him come back to reality. If this fail, go back to solution number one.
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>>34456122
sure, your cousin
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>>34456122
>My cousin
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There should be some attempt to correct the problem, but going to far means that you aren't coming back, and bashing the candle to CP may be the final stop before rape occurs.
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>>34456122
https://www.stopitnow.org/
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>>34456122
Tell him to take finasteride, it will kill his sexuality.
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>>34456122
Either you sex a female and produce children, or you don't. This whole free time to play with your genitals for extended periods of time is a very modern invention that can be remedied by simply having not a whole lot of time to play with your genitals. By you know, doing something constructive with your time and building something that endures and doesn't dissipate in 25 minutes of building up with your very muscular right hand and arm.
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>>34456122
>So is it a good idea for him to get therapy? Would abstaining from masturbation and porn be a better solution?
Both of those things are essential. (Actually giving up porn may not be necessary, but he needs to be very strict about it only containing adult women); he needs to quit the stuff he's looking at now).



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