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>eat junk food and jerk off
>want girlfriend and sex

>eat healthy and dont jerk off
>dont want girlfriend

Isnt it supposed to be opposite? How do I fix this?
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>>34457921
Doesn't really seem like you have a problem to fix, king
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>>34457921
it seems you only want a gf when you feel miserable, as a way to compensate for things you feel you're lacking
and when you're feeling better with yourself that base need for a gf as a validation subsides
change your perspective in life anon
a gf is not a trophy and doesn't validate anything
I've gotten some gfs after very hard work and trying to make all my qualities shine, etc, but I've also got gfs just because I was at the right moment and with the right crowd
Having a gf doesn't mean that much, other than you're capable of having companionship and are interesting to someone else
it's very basic stuff
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>>34457943
>Having a gf doesn't mean that much, other than you're capable of having companionship and are interesting to someone else
I disagree with you. I think many people do. my entire self worth and confidence lays on the shoulders of women. especially women that I (ME) find attractive. I and extremely fucking insecure. When a woman loves me - I am so fucking secure, I couldn't care what anyone thinks.
The solution isn't to wean off women, the solution is to find a submissive slut who gets a trigger set in her brain and she believes she's "yours" for one reason or another. like fucking oxygen dude. drink her.
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>>34457921
Not really no. Girls are okay.
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>>34458130
that's the reason you're having problems getting a girl bro, the moment you rely on the opinion of anyone else but you to feel good with yourself is the moment you've lost the game of life.
and girls don't wanna be with losers
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>>34457921
>eat healthy and dont jerk off
>dont want girlfriend
Same. I enjoy beign single and having the time and energy to work in my projects
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>>34457921
maybe you are actually gay
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>>34457921
Once you have a girlfriend you'll realize you don't need to have a girlfriend at all. You'll go back to your factory default of pre-teen phase where you didn't care jackshit about partner and relationships. Girls who ain't looking to be in a relationship being single is fine meanwhile if you're a guy people will call you out gay for saying you don't need a woman in your life.


People will call you gay for it. Other people will say you want it for attention. The reality is that you weren't dating woman this whole time because all the bitches around you are disgusting human being with their personality and attitude. You're not desperate for sex and attention. You'll only start caring to give a shit when you find the right person.

Just focus on your goals in life whatever you have from being jacked, wealthy, millionaire etc.. then the relationship status wears off from you.



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