Is acknowledging a wrongdoing weeks after it happened considered bad? My stupid ass is just realizing that some stuff I did wasn't okay, and I want to apologize to some people. But I don't know if it'll come off as me trying to get good points or get a favor or something. But also if I stay in the shadows I fear it will look like I never cared. And I want to avoid sounding like a victim, so I'd also appreciate advice in that regard.
>>34457997What did u do?
>>34458001Basically being too distant and closed off to a group of people, and I'm pretty sure it has made me look like someone I'm not. They always encouraged me to participate, but I avoided it due to insecurities.
>>34457997If you apologize earnestly usually it's okdon't try to "I'm sorry but..." or "I'm sorry you feel this way", that's not an apology and you know it deep insidejust say you're sorry, why you're sorry.I don't even remember why but I had a fight with my sister some years ago and I realized I over reacted a week and a half into the problemI apologized and she hugged me and that was itthere will be people who will weaponize an apology but that's not people worth having in your life so this is a good opportunity to get rid of bad people in your life too
