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Is dying your hair gay? Premature graying runs in my family. I'm only 35 and I already look like this. My wife was teasing me about it and I reminded her that it'll happen to her too but she correctly pointed out she can dye her hair, which got me thinking about it.
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Hair dyes are loaded with carcinogens and your hair will not look natural. It's always better to age gracefully.
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>>34458416
Women seem to fine. Aging gracefully in my 30s seems oxymoronic.
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>>34458415
You’re already a feminine little bitch with that hairdo so might as well dye it, maybe think about some estrogen outside of all the onions you take in.
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>>34458418
t.
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What's wrong with greying? I would 1000% prefer to be greying than balding
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OP try it if you want. All these celebrities and politicians do it. Trump was doing it till he was in his late 70s.

>>34458420
Ideally you'd be neither.
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>>34458415
why not try non-permanent hair dye? washes out after a month or two
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>>34458415
I'm 38 and a lot worse. Well at least I'm not bald or manlet. Those are worse than death.
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>>34458422
I didn't even know there was non-permanent hair dye. I guess I could try that.
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>>34458416
most women dye their hair
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>>34458425
And?
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>>34458418
Onions are a high test food though
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>>34458415
Yeah, I would dye it. I wouldn't go black though. Try a light to medium brown so it'll look natural.
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I am 27 yo and a lot worse anon, if that helps you somehow ;)

I got a white patch only on one side of my head while the other looks completely colored.
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>>34458426
most women aren't getting cancer
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>>34458428
My hair is black although it becomes brown when I grow it out. Maybe some kind of dark brown.

>>34458429
I've had one of those at the back of my head since I was 14.
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The good thing about going grey early is you never go bald
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>>34458432
How would you tell you're graying If you don't have hair?
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>>34458433
Balding fags always have some hair on their heads
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>>34458434
But graying doesn't happen everywhere at the same time.
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>>34458415
One of my managers does dye his hair and looks pretty young for being in his 40s (he's a faggot and actually lives with his bf though)
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>>34458419
Why do baldlets always cope with a beard?
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>>34458415
The trick is to do it incrementally and use dye a few shades lighter then your actual hair color.
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>>34458436
Flase equivalence
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>>34458415
good idea if you wanna look like you're having a mid-life crisis. people WILL notice
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>>34458419
to this date I've haven't seen a worse cope than this one.
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>>34458415
>Is dying your hair gay?
Yes
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>>34458415
Your body is lacking in copper. Fic your nutrient deficiency amd you won't have to buy the jew dye.
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>>34458415
Everyone will know and snicker behind your back about it
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>>34458415
Asking others what to do with your appearance is gay.
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>>34458443
Even if that could prevent further greying it isn't going to re-pigment the hair that is already grey
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>>34458443
I have no deficiencies. Like I said, it runs the family. My father had it and his grandfather had it. My dad was completely gray at 30, so I'm not as bad him but still.
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>>34458415
I always thought gray hair was cool. If everything else about you looks young then it will appear unique.
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>>34458415
As long as you're /fit/ and handsome you'll just become a silver fox. Gray hair and baldness are not in the same universe.
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>>34458427
YOU KNOW WHAT I MEANT!
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>>34458415
Get a short, side-parted haircut
Women go feral over a clean cut with a little gray
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>>34458451
Nah, I'm going back to long hair I had in my 20s. Chicks went nuts for the jacked + long hair look. They would actually approach me back then.

>>34458448
>>34458449
If it's all gray, I agree. But when it's just strands of hair it looks meh imo.
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>>34458452
Long hair works well when you're young but not as much in your 30s and 40s unless you look like Brad Pitt or something.
Aging gracefully as a man usually means going for a more modest look as you get older. Think about women in their 30s and 40s who try to capture the way they looked when they were young. It tends to look off and a little desperate.
Clinging to youth is counterintuitive.
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>>34458453
This is true. Long hair on a man over the age of 30 is grotesque. It adds significant age to your appearance by highlighting every single aspect of your age via the contrast of the long hair.

Yes there are some examples of men who wear longer hair over the age of 30, but for the most part if you consider what they look like with a shorter hairstyle, they will certainly look younger.
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>>34458415
Dr Berg on YouTube is kind of quacky and ghey sometimes but he has a video on this about how the body produces some kind of hydrogen peroxide that affects the hair and causes graying
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>>34458455
Dr Berg will have like 10 different videos on the same subject. He runs out of ideas but loves his internet fame so he'll just re-make videos with a minor change every year.
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I have some whites too, I hate the salt and pepper look, I hope I go fully white soon.
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>>34458415
salt and pepper hair on men is hot. your wife's just bantering, she most probably loves it too.
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>>34458455
>video on this about how the body produces some kind of hydrogen peroxide that affects the hair and causes graying
He's a schizo broken clock partly right twice a day; some of these detoxify ROS and their activity gets nook'd if you're copper-deficient: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Category:Copper_enzymes
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>>34458455
Dr.Berg is dyeing his hair. If he knew anything that works, he'd have reversed his white hair naturally
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>>34458415
Similar age and going through the same thing.
Comes from my English side.
Was thinking about dying my hair too but didn't like the idea of using harsh chemicals plus it looks odd with the whole head being one single color.
I did some researcher and one way to change grey hair color is using products that contain bismuth citrate.
It combines with the sulfur in the hair follicles and turns into bismuth sulfide which naturally has black pigment in it.
This slowly builds up on the outer part of the hair over time and turns grey hairs dark looking.
Rather than using dyes the penetrate deep into all of your hairs and depositing dye into them.
It looks more natural because its does this slowly over weeks and blends that grey hairs more naturally in your other hairs.

Just ordered pic related the other day and will be giving it a shot.
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>>34458422
Dye is not bad per se, but it does have a tendency to weaken and thin your hair, the more you use it. So it’s a tradeoff.
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>>34458437
>beard
>very obviously just short stubble
Thanks for letting everybody know your balls never dropped, peachfuzz
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Just go salt and pepper then fuck chicks with daddy issues simple as

if you are dead set on changing there is the new just for men product that apparently reverses greying.
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>>34458455
Let me guess.... ITS CARBS
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>>34458415
Gayness of the non-sexual kind is defined in terms of confidence and competence. Something can be only gay if you suck at and/or are insecure about it.

Dying hair is an easy one because competent dying should be indistinguishable from natural hair. In other words, if you dye it right and no one can tell, you're not gay. If people notice, it's gay. Double gay if you get insecure about it, too.
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>>34458415
You look fine and you're already married so who cares?
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>>34458415
copper and iron deficiency
buy yourself a copper mug (solid copper, not alloy) and drink acidic drinks from it (milk, cola...)
or if you're brave enough grab yourself a sub 2mm 30g mesotherapy needle and 1ml syringe and AHK-cu or GHK-cu and start pinning on your scalp
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>>34458446
yes it is? new hair grows out and grey hair gets replaced by fresh pigmented hair????

>>34458447
genetics influence micronutrient utilization and use
see melanocyte pathway for more info
hair is least of your issues as prolonged copper deficiency means that your veins and arteries are stiff which will create an aneurysm and internal bleeding in old age
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>>34458415
You should probably try to keep your facecard and health in general.
If you manage to look young with long gray hair in it'd make for an interesting look.
Lazy people will just always label other people as gay, to justify sitting in their own exceptionally heterosexual pool of piss.
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>>34458415
>My wife was teasing me about it
Playfully slap her on the ass and tell her to start calling you "daddy". Men look fine with a little grey, it makes you look worldly. Dying it is for women and weebs. Just thank your lucky stars you're not bald.
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>>34458419
People don't want to admit this is true. Shame it's said by a baldie so people think it's cope, but then they'll blackpill how looks are everything. It's a real problem when looks are a problem TO YOU. The real blessing of attractive people is that they can be free of thinking about it, so since it's all in your head you can also liberate yourself from being hyper-aware of your physical appearance even if you're a 3. Every prettyboy needs to adapt to this mindset eventually, or twink death by Norwood will actually be fundamentally devastating when it happens.
Same for girls, when their teen metabolism croaks.
Life is more than the decade after 15.
T. Not bald btw
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>>34458424
My dad put some sort of henna in his beard when he went grey. It turned green. He doesn't do that anymore.
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>>34458415
>Is dying
Yes.
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I forgot I made this thread lol. Won't be able to reply to everyone, but I've decided not to dye it for now.
>>34458453
I disagree. I'm the perfect age to pull off the Jesus look.
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Being reminded of your own mortality every time you look in the mirror is a good thing.
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>>34458476
>Being reminded of your own mortality every time you look in the mirror is a good thing.
No, it ack-shilly means your DNA repair mechanisms are going haywire for any of a large variety of reasons and you're getting increasingly more likely to ACK soon.
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>>34458415
Take B12 and Zinc sister
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>>34458415
my dad is a angry old croatian war vet and he's been dying his hair for a long time
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>>34458441
>>34458472
He's completely right, but he's also on the verge of tears.
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>>34458464
>Just go salt and pepper then fuck chicks with daddy issues simple as
How did it take this long for someone to post this?
wtf fit
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>>34458415
Dying is even gayer and life is short, go for it.
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>>34458481
I don't know but to me it is the best option. My second option is also good, it is seriously a real product from them
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no woman honestly cares about greys
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>>34458415
No. Is obsessing over if "is x gay?" gay?
Yes, you are gay anon. Come out of the closet.
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>>34458415
Dying will show to others you have a deep insecurity and a exploitable weakness. Those others include, critically, your wife.
She tested your inner strength telling you about a defect of you. Wich could be malicious or hopefully not.
But the sure thing is she don't want a dyed husband.
The only correct course of action is don't giving a fuck about your hair.
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>>34458415
Well, you have some options with your hair.
>Accept the gray as a part of your age and who you are.
>Dye it to suit your preference
>Trim it short to slightly conceal the gray
>Shave it all off
I went bald in my twenties, and gave up going to Ye Olde Barbershop. I've been shaving muh head for well over a decade now, and I am glad I did. My hair is gray and stupid now anyway.



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