Even just after meeting them, the first few days, girls are already scared I'll cheat on them. Like yes, I want to fuck them, but I'm also open for something long-term, IF they're a good match. But they keep pre-rejecting themselves by making excuses and making assumptions and stuff. What do?
>>34459053Because due to your insecurity you keep going for girls below your level. Minimum effort, no posibility of rejection. Women are very good at calibrating their own market value, and they know you could be with a better girl at any time.So, up the bar, you lazy.
>>34459081Fuck you, one of those two girls was the hottest girl I knew! Granted, she wanted a beta buck, and I was dirtpoor too. She still kept making disqualifying statements though, like how she's clinically insane and spoiled and stuff.
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>>34459112It sounds like you're trying to make a blanket statement about women when in fact you just clawed your way into 2 relationships with insecure crazy ladies.Be real with yourself, you're a beta bucks that takes what he can get, so you got what you could - crazy and insecure women.Women are inherently creatures that use men, but crazy women try to suck your soul too and give you nothing bad for it. My advice for you is stop generalizing. I can see those patterns in myself too, where something happens more than once so I quickly equate it to "everything is", but it ain't. It's easy to categorize it like that, but it's deeper than that. You want to be a smart man right? Well smart people look and think deeper, and the fact is that those two girls you met are made up of many circumstances, just from hearing what you wrote I can tell you: 1) they're both hot af, so they probably don't care about you too much in the grand scheme of things, but 2) there is something about you, such as your beta bux, that attracts them to try and honker you down and 3) they have emotional issues and past trauma which they dump on you, even when you did nothingSo yeah dude, that's not all women, it's those two. And you met them in a specific place, with specifically where they are in life. And all these things add up into explaining WHY you met those people. If I keep meeting girls at hippie parties and I'm surprised I got a free spirited hairy girlfriend, I'm the dumb oneOkay, good luck man
>>34463066Nothing back** for it. Also I saw you wrote you're dirt poor, that's fine, they can still want you for a myriad other reasons (you are hot, you remind them of their dad, the way you treat them makes them wet, you participate in a hobby they like, etc)
>>34459053Do you openly tell her you want to keep dating others while you're together? That shit will nuke a new relationship.
