I'm 21 and I've been with my girlfriend for 2 years now. I love her personality & spending time with her but for the past ~6 months I've had off days where I really contemplate breaking things off.I haven't because I know I'm highly affected by the amount of sleep I have and these are usually days where I'm tired, but there are some genuine issues in the relationship.The main one is sex and attraction. We have great sex & I like it but that's because I put in all the effort to make it hot for myself. To begin with I don't think she values sex as much as me, she's less likely to initiate it, isn't interested in pushing herself physically to be better in bed (gym, stretching etc.) even though I've hinted that I'd like that.I'm a solid 9 who workouts and has a good career and I could probably do better physically but in all other aspects the relationship is great. I don't know what to do because I obviously can't force her to workout with me or care more about sex, and even asking directly is daunting because I don't want to make her feel insecure.
>>34461833sounds like you would be better with men
>>34461850Interesting take from rich faggot.
>>34461833Bumping this because I haven't gotten any responses except go gay.
>>34461856this made me laugh so hard.>>34462111i'm just saying you seem to get along with people in the gym more.
>>34461833People have no business at all having a relationship outside of church. You're a fornicator. I was one myself. 10 years later I'm in my divorce. Waiting for this thing to end. If you want a relationship go find a Church that helps couples. If you don't want to study scriptures like people study anime enjoy that whatever.
>>34461833> I don't think she values sex as much as me, she's less likely to initiate itCongratulations you just described 90% of women
>>34462172the solution is to give her porn addiction so that she desires sex so much she will cheat you with someone else. only then can OP be gay in peace.
>>34462124Plenty of girls go to the gym. >>34462172Past relationships I've had it's been different. It's not even like she has a low libido or doesn't want it she just doesn't care about it unless I initiate.
>>34462248then break up with her and pick a different one, since you're such a gigachad
