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Is it normal for club to reject you for how you look?
I had never gone to clubs before, but I was feeling like dancing for some reasons, so the idea to go to a club randomly got in my head as clubs are places to dance
however, when I got there yesterday, the guy stopped me saying I didn't looked right, I thought maybe it was a club for costumed people or something, only for him to accept a dude with a really common outfit just after
which makes me think they refused me because they didn't liked my face. And I've being wondering since
Is it normal? why did they do that? Is there other places where I can dance? Was I just unlucky?
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What were you wearing?
Most clubs have a dress code.
No shorts/no trainers is a pretty common one.
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>>34462027
Should have vibed with the people waiting to not look like an autist.
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>>34462032
Huh do you see how Kim dress in DE? Like that a little.
I admit it's not the most classy outfit but I did this on a whim.
>>34462040
I didn't wanted to intrude into a group which were already talking with themselves...
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>>34462027
if you're a dude it's normal to be rejected for whatever reason. they might have just let too many dudes in and if you came at literally any other 5 minute interval that night you would have been a shoo in
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>>34462059
They do quotas between genders? Why?
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>>34462053
>do you see how Kim dress in DE?
No idea. You don't have to be classy, it's just some clubs are autistic over certain clothes for some reason.
If you were trying to enter alone that was probably more of a reason. Should have said your friends were already inside.
>>34462069
Too many men means no women which means no men which mean no anybody.
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>>34462084
Do people only go there to meet a partner? I thought it was also places to dance and vibe with the sounds...I must be autistic
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>>34462053
LOL. You didn't want to intrude them and you didn't intrude into the club at all. Suit yourself man.
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>>34462094
If you're a single man they're going to assume you're going there to creep on girls. Creeping on girls is fine if you're in a group but as a single guy it's creepy (also means you'll buy less drinks).
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>>34462123
Weird how people recommend these places to meet other people if they do this. I mean I get why they think this but it's a little dumb still. Just have more people checking the place if they are afraid of issues.
though to me it's too chaotic and busy for meeting people
but is there any alternatives to dance and vibe at night? It's what I'm here for. Meeting someone with my vibe isn't my goal here it be more of a coincidence if that happen. I wanna dance
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>>34462140
Clubs are a terrible place for meeting people. I only know one guy who met his gf in a club and he oozes confidence and charisma, and it was a fancy club abroad.
If you want to dance idk. Dancing in clubs is normally just bopping your head and gyrating awkwardly anyway.
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>>34462094
>Do people only go there to meet a partner? I thought it was also places to dance and vibe with the sounds...I must be autistic
totally irrelevant consideration. from the clubs point of view it's there to sell alcohol. it keeps it's throughput up by maximizing attendance, dwell time, bottle service, and safety

literally all of those things get worse the less women you have in the ratio, empirically. men are not spending as much, and single men just there to dance without friends are the worst of all
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>>34462027
well if you look like a chud incel it is common, since you are an autitst maybe you didnt notice people notice how you look
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>>34462069
are you a retard on purpose? lol



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