This guy and I have been talking for about a week. We really like each other, but I'm worried maybe I'm being a little overbearing? I don't want to bother him all the time, but I'm also very infatuated and board line obsessed with him. I think about him 24/7. I just don't want to push him away by being too much. Pls help what do I do??
>>34463276Be yourself. Timing texts and withholding is not love. It's not true. If there's too much or issues in communication balance is a 5 min phone call and with cause growth and unstanding. Communication from the other side will cause balance between both naturally as conversing happens.
>>34463276The purpose of dating is not to turn yourself into the person that your partner wants; the purpose of dating is to find someone who likes you the way you already are. So message him as much as you feel like messaging him. If that turns out to be too much, break up and find someone who likes being messaged more.
Depends how he responds to it, see if he likes you being “obsessed” with him. Mist dudes want to know they are loved and cared about. Also give him his own alone time and bro time.As a man I do enjoy a bit of my girl being obsessed with me, makes me happy and also keeps me from ever over thinking.If you’re just hitting him up every 20 minutes asking “wyd” or whatever then that can get old. Just make sure he feels the same way that you feel about him. You don’t want no one sided love.
In my case I know our love is reciprocated and she is just stuck with the communication part because of outside factors that cause harm to us. She is starting to communicate and reciprocate with me again.
>>34463340I thought it was getting them hooked and then slowly revealing your true character and craziness
My honest opinion is that this behavior is self indulgent. The more you spam a guy 24/7, the faster your dopamine will burn out. >>34463340Ask this poster how many failed relationships they've been in.
It feels so fucking good to just be yourself in communications. Honest. Clear. No fear. What we had 5 years ago
>>34463384>I thought it was getting them hooked and then slowly revealing your true character and crazinessNo.>>34463404>Ask this poster how many failed relationships they've been in.I'm currently 13 years into a happy and successful one.
Idk I can refrain from messaging him when I know he's busy with work or family, but it's actually driving me insane. I have restraint and respect but I don't want to lol I think it's harder too because it's long distance, I can't go see him rn and get it out of my system so I can be clam and collected.
