Do I give up and get an arranged marriage and bring over a wife from my home countryI don't think I can't financially support 2 people, I'm 20 years old.
>>34463607Which country
>>34463615Bangladesh
>>34463623Where do you live now?
>>34463638I was born in the USNever dated
>>34463607If you can't financially support yourself and her, getting married would be horribly irresponsible.
>>34463641Yeah probablyBut my parents have said they're looking for a wife for me and I don't want to be entirely alone anymoreAll these bitches just want a green card though
>>34463658But I can't support a family, I have a weekend job and I only make like 19 an hour
>>34463607The average age for first marriage in the USA is 30.5 Stop panicking.
>>34463694Yeah but all these other dudes have girlfriends and partners and suchI can't find one myself, I need to settle down before I become bald and ugly. But I have to balance it with financial stabilityI'm thinking maybe I could get married without it being legally official, I don't have to subscribe to gay manmade American lawsBut then it loops back to me being unable to financially support a familyI might buy a sex doll instead
>>34463607>>34463623I am 26 and in the same situation as you. I started this whole process at 22 and its taken me 4 years to find someone who I find to be decent.Nothing wrong with starting early, and in fact its to your advantage that you start as early as possible.What you need to do is try to meet with as many girls as possible that your parents give you their profile for, so that you get an understanding of what behaviors you are comfortable or uncomfortable when it comes to women.For me smoking and drinking is a big no. At first I was comfortable with social drinking and after meeting more women who were social drinkers I decided that I want someone who is completely sober. I could not have found this person if I waited too late.Your parents might annoy you but its to your benefit so that you have a collection of people in the back of your mind that made you feel uncomfortable and you know what to look for in the right women
>>34463713I think my only hard limit is that she's not diaspora, she has to be from Bangladesh and ideally wear hijabI'm not so picky, I know relationships/marriages are transactional so I don't have any misconceptions, I just want basic stability for the future
