im so sick of sexual desire. I'm a 20 year old virgin, maybe mildly addicted to porn, I masturbate probably once every 2-3 days, probably 80% of the time to porn. (Relatively good stats i think, for your typical loser). I'm not much more self-loathing than most of my peers. I doubt I have any kind of depression or mental issue. Post nut clarity is borderline debilitating. I have experienced romantic attraction and love in my life. I highly doubt I'm asexual, but I frequently find myself jealous of them. I dont consider myself to be some stupid dude just trying to cut off his emotions to fulfill whatever AI-generated "stoic" youtube video he saw that week. I'm not religious, not pious at all. I take no shame in sexuality, I think its a healthy thing for people to have. I just completely despise how sexual desire controls MY life. I want to be rid of it. If someone tells me "just have sex, it will go away", im going to go ballistic. In my mind, its like telling a drug addict to just stay on a steady supply of substances. I don't want to feel the "need" to masturbate or have sex. It's completely miserable. I dont want to castrate myself, I'm too scared I would regret it. I don't really want to go through the hassle of getting SSRIs, unless there are some over-the-counter options. Has anyone experienced what im experiencing? I would seriously be so grateful for any kind of help from someone whos been through it before.
Imagine wanting to castrate yourself just because you're horny, lol
Hormones are powerful drugs. Your balls produce testosterone and it makes you horny. It's as simple as that.The answer of course is a longterm girlfriend who you love and have sex with to cure your desire. Then when post-nut clarity hits, you are not disgusted because you honestly love her.So sorry to say there are no easy answers. You are trying to fight against nature. Against our God given mission: to go forth and multiply.
>>34464007You'll be less horny if you masturbate more. That's what masturbation is for.
Mate, I've been there. You can masturbate daily as long as you maintain a healthy lifestyle. It sounds weird, but you've got to clean your system of the testosterone and other hormones. Masturbating is the best way to do it. Best of luck.
>>34464007>I'm having normal human behavior, it's so over.Get a girlfriend and fuck her, son. I swear you're taking autism to another level. Don't take SSRIs, you're already way fucked up from thoughts alone.
>>34464070>>34464215 Thanks for the sincere answers. I appreciate it.>>34464220Please understand that this approach will do a poor job of convincing anyone of anything because you sound completely schizophrenic
I can tell you from experience that you're certainly not the only person to have such a line of thought. It would be pretty convenient if we could just get rid of the whole thing with a simple procedure.>>34464070>>34464342Getting a girlfriend wouldn't resolve the root problem of wanting one in the first place. It really would be like dealing with a drug addiction by doing more drugs instead of actually getting rid of the addiction.
>>34464007Not really an answer, but you might find this relevant and interesting:https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sublimation_(psychology)#Sexual_sublimation
>>34464007Without understanding the intensity of your desires, I think the immediate response would be to talk to a therapist provided on campus if you go to college. You can see if they believe a referral to a psychiatrist is necessary in case something is wacky with your hormones.If you are just someone with a high libido who is sexually frustrated, start doing some cardio to release some endorphins.Besides, it will put you in a spot where being in better shape will help you nail some attractive chick your age.
