Last night I was with my girlfriend and she got up to use the bathroom. I noticed her phone was on DND which I thought was sus so I looked through it and saw her ex from a few months texted her. I confronted her about it and she told me she had no idea she even texted her, but I thought the timing of the DND being on was odd as she had her notifications on just a minute ago right when he texted her, so it seems like she saw his text and quickly put her phone on DND to avoid me from seeing any further texts.I’m not really upset about this because she would know I would probably feel some type of way if I saw her texting her phone. I’m more concerned because she took their breakup hard and still holds alot of hate in her heart towards him. I’ve heard this is a red flag because she still has strong emotions for him whether positive or negative, and now I’m scared him texting her randomly has opened those floodgates of emotions back up. She told me I have nothing to worry about, but deep down I have a gut feeling something bad is going to happen.She hasn’t texted him at all since the break up (I checked), and she never replied to him as far as I know, but now I feel like she’s secretly going to message him behind my back. I have no idea what to do because I’ve seen so many blackpill edits about how a girl hates her ex, she still loves him deep down. Does anyone have any advice on how to proceed? She has never done me wrong so far, and I’ve even met her family and friends personally and event went to her best friends wedding where I met everybody, and she talks about me regularly to her friends and family about me, but I’m still scared to death of what’s going to potentially happen
>>34464806You kinda just have to trust her and if it's still bothering you in a week or so, bring it up gently and tell her it's been on your mind and that you just want some reassurance that nothing is happening. Most of the time you have nothing to worry about, but you also have every right to feel uncomfortable with this situation. She should probably block him as well.
>>34464806It's called deleting text messages, using a private messenger, hiding the contact. Tbh she prob just deleted the message after she is done sexting with him every time
Sit down with her and ask her if she still has feelings sure fun. Just day you saw the texts but didn't say what they were that you saw. Put pressure on her. She'll crack under a little on pressure and you'll know the truth
>>34464806>She told me I have nothing to worry aboutDon't they always say this and end up cheating with the same guy they tell you not to worry about? lol
>>34464806>She hasn’t texted him at all since the break up (I checked), and she never replied to him as far as I knowDo you have her password?Go through her phone, if she hasn't blocked her ex on everything then that's a huge red flag.Have her go through your phone first of course so it's fair.
>>34465603Yes so she has time to hide her cheating. Good idea.
>>34464806Don't snoop if you can't handle what you might find
>>34464806bruh, imagine being a spineless, sissy, cuckold of a faggot and being in relationship with a ran through whore. Grow a pair, spine and some braincells faggot. I bet your own daddy was a cuckold himself who'd wifed up a ran through slut and later birthed you with that very same whore. No wonder the west and western alligned societies are depressing as hell.
>>34464806She is not responsible for who chooses to message her, any more than you are to blame for the emails in your spam folder
>>34465603>Have her go through your phone first of course so it's fair.Okay dumber
>>34465603>if she hasn't blocked her ex on everything that's a huge red flag Breaking up on amicable terms is a "huge red flag"? I think you're projecting.
>>34464806I'd dump them if I were you, they are obviously not to be trusted.
Bump
>>34464806Oh you poor fucker. 95% chance you're gonna end up getting cheated on. You don't talk to exes you don't still have feelings for. I don't care what anyone says.
You have the ex's number. That's enough to do something. Sign him up for shit like Scientology and health insurance. If you have any of his socials especially Facebook or Instagram you could find out his entire family and friends. (It works like a web) dont let him win anon.
>>34464806YGIG