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helloooo, i’m the 19f femanon from a day or two ago about knowing if i came or not … i want to start using 4chan more actively than once a month … not the point.

i have an (22m) e-boyfriend, i guess. i want to open to him to the pleasures of being a cuck so 1. i can film myself eventually effing a dude 2. actually get game irl before i’m tied down 3. watch a boy at his most pathetic.

i’d only find pleasure in it if he also enjoyed it while feeling bad (being a masochist, basically), if i just felt like i was NTR’ing him then it wouldn’t be any fun because he’d just be a whiny, negative loser. i like whiny, optimistic losers. “she’s doing this to get the pleasure i can’t give her… i’m so pathetic… but she looks so good when she feels good…” that sort of thinking. delicious!

i’ve passed the idea by him multiple times, but everytime he shuts me down. he has dpd (diagnosed) & relies on me for everything — sometimes including financially and health wise as he needs direction, so he wouldn’t ever leave me even if i NTR’d (cheated on) him, but he says he wouldn’t be able to handle it and would kill himself after some time (i’m right where i want to be).

i know 4chan wont really like the concept, but help a below average gal out? what’re some ways a gf could convince you to be cucked even once, assuming she’s emotionally mature and not going to leave you for a bigger cock (i wouldn’t due to my phobia, i just don’t want to be a virgin when i meet), & how can a 5/10 girl meet a semi-cute guy IRL who’s never had any game and convince him to a bull for a day — how could a girl convince you?
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>>34465678
>i’m the 19f
Sit on my face immediately
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>>34465678
Watch less porn
please
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>>34465714
it’s less about having a fantasy & moreso about wanting experience so i can properly pleasure him though?! just with a little added, sadistic fun … and he has fap material if i record him a video, i could even moan his name instead … i really don’t see how it’s that bad of an idea
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>>34465758
at the end of the day, i’m just asking for dating / relationship advice like every 3rd thread on this board, so it’s not really nsfw?? (¬_¬") though this sort of anger is cute … if my boyfriend said i disgusted him that’d be cute too ..
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>>34465678
I'm a bored successful 35M who is only here because 10+ years ago was a khhv and had a subsequent massive turnaround into success and being a normie, and I frequent /adv/ again just to witness weird people again. Also being a normie cost me every online friends to chat with, so I'll bite and take you seriously.

First of all:
1) I did not read your previous thread, so I don't know what info already was in there,
2) Are you a virgin? Is this the first time you do any of this stuff?
3) Is this online relationship?
4) Are any of you trans in any way?
5) I assume you do this for fun, not as a plan for life?
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>>34465826
1.) it was just a complaint about my phobia (vaginal penetration) and then advice on how to know if i’m actually cumming when i masturbate / ensure i do because it always feels unfulfilling

2.) i am a virgin, my boyfriend is a virgin also. i have previous irl dating experience but it was just giving my ex oral & handstuff


3.) like i said, e-boyfriend, so online. i want more experience before i meet him!!!

4.) i am true gonadal intersex and feel a likeness to troons but otherwise not trans, nor is he

5.) the cucking would be a 1 time thing and anal, i want to work up to giving my bf my vaginal virginity
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Dump him, date me, I let you cukc me and we go our separate ways after that. Yes I am this bored. No I am not that desperate but this plan isn't working unless he is already into it and if you wanna do this just to get game and manipulate and feel good about yourself then by all means you can do with me I don't care and have thought about killing myself recently anyways.
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>>34465866
addendum to 1.) obviously i use my butt to get off
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>>34465866
Why do this to your bf and yourself? If you're not into it then why? If you're both virgins then why? I could understand if he wasn't but you're both virgins so. Why do this if you love each other? I assume you don't really care about him and just date him due to being insecure and unable to get better? Why is this even a thing?
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>>34465866
I'm older and more experienced, I'll use a trip before some loser puts weird shit in my posts. You can do this too for this thread.

1. That'll sound crude, but time alone with her dildo helps a woman overcome this. Unless it's fear of pregnancy or performance that's the issue?

Also,
- do you get these ideas from anime and manga?
- it doesn't look like the guy wants this, you sure you want to do harm?

Also:
> what’re some ways a gf could convince you to be cucked even once, assuming she’s emotionally mature and not going to leave you
I'm a hippie inside and would be happy with it if I get all shackles free and can make her a cuckquean as well. But I'd put a rule a) no IRL meetups with any extra partners b) they have to be online (for emotions and sexting only) and 500 kilometres away or more. also psychology has to be seriously taken into account, cause a lot of people 'try stuff' then strongly regret it
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>>34465873
if i didn’t care about him id just break up with him ~~ like i’ve said all over this thread, >>34465719
i don’t see how it’s an issue to want to gain experience by playing out a fantasy — it’d just be my anal virginity which he doesn’t really need to take, isn’t a pure pussy way more desirable? and this way, he’ll work harder to not lose me & keep my interest, since i’d show im desirable too? he’s a bit out of my league but being a major freak (& having dpd) means his (irl & online) relationships don’t last long, i’m a major freak & ugly so having 1 thing isn’t too bad
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>>34465900
>i don’t see how it’s an issue to want to gain experience by playing out a fantasy
Nothing wrong with that, but I paid attention to this:
>>34465678
>so he wouldn’t ever leave me even if i NTR’d (cheated on) him, but he says he wouldn’t be able to handle it and would kill himself after some time

Mentally disturbed people actually do this, especially men (suicide ratio 8 men to 1 woman, at least where I live). Sorry to be negative. But that's the only barrier I see, so I focus on it.
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>>34465885
i’m not really sure how to put a trip on my posts (lurker female + #mobileuser) but thank you mister …

1.) dw i got some tips!!! mainly i think i was and it was just so disappointing alone & couldn’t possibly believe it was orgasm ꐦ(¬`‸´¬)

* i’ve just always been into the more domme side of things and have never been interested in submitting to a guy, my fantasies are from coming up with ways to completely torture & whip a guy to my every whim
* like i said, he isn’t leaving because of his dpd, if he doesn’t trust me ever again and wants to restrict everything i do i see that as still a win-win situation (im exactly where i want to be)
blah blah blah ruining my life, blah blah blah childish whims, blah blah blah you’ll regret it in the future, blah blah blah. i know what im doing, life is to have fun with!!!
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>>34465900
Wanting experience while in a relationship is the problem. Especially since theres no need. Not like your bf has experience either so you're both at the same level. It would be one thing if you simply wanted to do this on your own but in a relationship? I don't see the point unless he was also into it.

>I'm ugly and hes out of my league
And your solution is to cuck him? Yeah this is retarded. Especially with you saying he would kill himself. Go ahead and do it but don't make another post talking about how you're depressed after potentially making him kill himself please. Also if you love him why cuck him? I still don't get it. You are into it yourself then?
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>>34465678
>what’re some ways a gf could convince you to be cucked even once
She wouldn't be able to. Just break up with him and get find a cuck on reddit.
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>>34465930
If you have it figured out then why are you here? You must have some doubts about it then. I can assure you getting some dude to cuck your bf isn't hard even as an ugly woman. You have a pussy. Theres guys put there who fuck anythinf with a pulse. Go find them. As for your bf he will promptly kill himself possibly tho. If hes not into it just don't do it then lmao
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>>34465930
>and it was just so disappointing alone & couldn’t possibly believe it was orgasm ꐦ(¬`‸´¬)
It is possible to overromanticise them, lmao.
They DO get better though. It'll depend on you getting fired up, opportunity and breaking taboos, on anxiety, but I notice period cycle also affects women a lot, so that too.

>i’ve just always been into the more domme side of things and have never been interested in submitting to a guy, my fantasies are from coming up with ways to completely torture & whip a guy to my every whim
Sounds good, but it takes two to tango, and you cornering a guy won't satisfy you if he'll genuinely dislike it and will turn into self-harm

>he isn’t leaving because of his dpd
What's "dpd", except a courier company in Europe? You mean "bpd" or is this something I haven't heard about?

>blah blah blah ruining my life, blah blah blah childish whims, blah blah blah you’ll regret it in the future, blah blah blah. i know what im doing, life is to have fun with!!!
all that risk is fine, just don't drive the man into suicide

To your point, to convince him, he needs more than a stick, he needs a carrot too. Give him something he wants (no, financial support is still a penalty for a guy, guys want to be self-sufficent and he's unable to), I mean what he really wants.
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>>34465961
What advice is this? Imagine trying to play into morals about cornering the guy and then also helping her manipulate said cornered guy
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>>34465972
Fuck morals, as long as it doesn't end up in a disaster, all is fine

I wonder if this dude, given the opportunity that he currently doesn't have, would just leave her

Also, I have to add that I don't give a fuck if this story is fake, I'm here out of bored and for the plot.
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>>34465943
i wouldn’t say i have a particular kink to it, i don’t personally hold much value in my body but i know men do. before i met him. i want experience so i can be a proper domme. not that hard to understand lol? you’re not magically good at sex your first time, & i want him to feel addicted and helpless compared to my expertise when we do it. hence, experience irl before we meet. am i really the retarded one here???

>>34465959
are you incapable of reading or something? in my first post, i said that i want him to take masochistic pleasure in it, not to mention finding out how to meet a guy, that’s why i’m here… it’s not really doubts as much as needing to set things in place lol
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>>34465986
>as long as it doesn't end in disaster
>manipulate a cornered guy
Yeah okay. Although I agree with you. Fuck morals. So let her do what she wants and forget about her bfs suicide problems. She knows that and wants to do it anyways so might as well make it an unforgettable experience
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>>34465988
Yeah you are retarted. Because one you mentioned he has bpd and is addicted to you. You already have him overly attached to you. The "experience" is shit too anyways. 1 guy? Just because you fuck once doesn't mean you have experience either. You have to be a larger at this point cause no way you thought one sexual encounter would boost your expertise by much. But I am bored so I'll stick around.
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>>34465961
DPD is dependent personality disorder — you can basically think of it as worse BPD, without splitting. it’s only idolization. he’s never thought he’s capable of hating me, and at the beginning of our relationship said he could handle anything, but as i press on it i guess he gets worried. his main concern is id leave him for whoever i bang, even though i definitely wouldn’t because no one matches my freak half as much as he does lolol

thank you so much for your advice mister! (,,>ヮ<,,)!
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>>34465678
>so he wouldn’t ever leave me even if i NTR’d (cheated on) him
if I were him, I would leave you, or in the worst scenario I would kill myself as you said he's dependent on you and his mental state
>how could a girl convince you?
I prefer to be single if that would be the case, so there would be no way I would accept that
>>34465988
>i want experience so i can be a proper domme. not that hard to understand lol? you’re not magically good at sex your first time, & i want him to feel addicted and helpless compared to my expertise when we do it. hence, experience irl before we meet. am i really the retarded one here???
if that's the case, why not learn with him?

yeah, I know, I'm a retard to fall for this bait, but I'm bored
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>>34465988
You can be a masochist in many different ways. Doesn't need to be cuck. And meeting a guy as a woman is easy. So how badly are you at communicating at all? Walk up to a guy and say "I wanna cuxk my bf once" and thats it. Find some degenerate or some complete loser to get him to do it. Also it doesn't seem like you care and love your bf. You want him addicted to you and to see him hurt and a low point in his life. This sounds more like cruelty than love. Which considering your self esteem it might be
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>>34465988
>i said that i want him to take masochistic pleasure in it
I mean, this is a bit like how can we make you be a submissive obedient little bunny. You CAN try to make him like it, and what if he still doesn't? This stuff isn't easy unless you know his mind inside out, and if he has bpd then nobody knows what's in his head. Especially not us.

>>34465999
She's gonna do what she wants to do, we got no control over this. And it's not like I didn't manipulate people in the past - so I'm not gonna go overboard with a lecture on morals, it's just where she takes this can end up in an actual disaster and I don't like it.

>>34466010
Thanks for explaining. So,
1) why not take it step by step with him? see how he reacts?
2) work his mental health up in the meantime so he is more resilient to your shit
3) give him something too (something he actually asks for)

>>34466013
>yeah, I know, I'm a retard to fall for this bait, but I'm bored
Aren't we all, but there's boring bait and there's interesting bait, I bit and don't regret so far
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>>34466021
>Manipulates people
This can end up in disaster and I don't like it...yeah I don't believe. Why do you not like it if it ends up in disaster? No morals but wants to mitigate a suicide
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>>34466021
1.) like i said, i floooated the idea by him a couple times, but every time he’s like “well, don’t you love me? i know you like making me jealous, but that’s a little much, isn’t it?” or bigger outbursts depending on how i bring it up … his outbursts are cute & i soothe him, so it’s all okay in the end, but i think he knows because im attention-driven, it’s hard to feel like im “just his” (and i guess this thread doesn’t help either LOL)

2.) been doing it, will continue doing it, sir, yes, sir! o7 you’d be surprised by what he’s stayed through, & i’m proud of him and told him that today … i truly do love him!

3.) we’re pretty close to meeting due to my saving of money & his car being fixed … (ರ_•́) maybe he’ll be more receptive irl where he can actually monitor me

i kind of ignored it earlier but i’ve offered to open up the relationship, i don’t mind him necessarily cuckqueaning me bc my main issue personally is retroactive jealousy, but he refuses even that and says he wouldn’t want anyone else because has me. truly a hopeless romantic type
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>>34466021
>Aren't we all, but there's boring bait and there's interesting bait, I bit and don't regret so far
yeah, anything to take my mind off puting a knife on my neck
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>>34466065
This thread isn't helping because you just keep asking the same question even after being tied what to do. Just approach a random lmao. And unless he is into it theres not much to talk him into. Stop going in circles please
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>>34466065
Retroactive jealousy? Like you getting jealous?
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>>34466086
i only get jealous about his past relationships, hence retroactive. otherwise idc, he could cheat on me and i wouldn’t care as long as he didn’t leave me. but if he was cheating on me with an EX, i would care
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>>34465678
Build up to it. Send him (and us) simple nudes. Then send him (and us) pics of you exposing yourself in public, like flashing. Then send him (and us) pics of you flashing individual guys and enjoying their response. Then letting them touch you. And so on.
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>>34466098
>i only get jealous about his past relationships, hence retroactive. otherwise idc, he could cheat on me and i wouldn’t care as long as he didn’t leave me. but if he was cheating on me with an EX, i would care
maybe you both can cuck each other them?
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>>34466098
Humans makes less and less sense. So you can get cheated on but you only care if its an ex? Makes no sense.
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>>34465678
You don't have a boyfriend
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>>34465719
youre either baiting or fucking retarded
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>>34465678
>Namefag
>Obvious contentious and obnoxiously controversial post.

This is because you want attention. Here is your attention, now please leave.
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>>34466166
this
>>34465678
"e" gf or bf is not real gf/bf
you have the internet equivalent of a pen pal that you sext
THAT'S IT
e relationships are just advanced chatting
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>>34465678
>e-boyfriend
He's already a cuck. Next.
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>>34465678
>19f
Expired
>NTR
retarded too
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>>34466166
OP does, he's a faggot.
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>>34465678
If my gf tried doing this shit I'd kms on video and send it to her.
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If he's not into it, you don't do it, you could talk to him about it and see what he says but doing it behind his back is just actually cheating. Not "muh netorase" it's outright cheating. If you tell him and he doesn't want you to and you do it, it's cheating. If you tell him and he does want you to, then it's okay, I guess? Most relationships do not last through that though even when both "want" it.

The furthest thing you should even consider if you are dead set on doing this is doing something virtually i.e. vrchat or just sexting. And only with his permission and boundaries talked about.

I don't think this is real anyway.


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>>34466888
This shit is hilarious. In the late 90s and early 00s something like 30% of marriages were between people who met online and in the past couple decades that has gone up, many parents of zoomzooms and alphas like yourself met online first and it grew to something more. You'll disparage a relationship that starts online but you'll run to a sex app (tinder) to find a wife, lol. Pathetic, any relationship is better than the failed nothing you have anyway. I met my gf online and we live together and are engaged now btw.
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>>34465678
there is literally nothing that can force a self respecting man into cuckholdry except extreme trauma or mental illness.
You are a broken woman who legitimately deserves to die and never have a rightful partner.
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>>34467656
1. I'm a millennial
2. my parents met through mutual friends
3. I have never used a dating app
4. I met my wife at work, we are happily married and have two kids
>I met my gf online
different than this discord "e-dating" bullshit
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>>34467703
How is it different? What do you think I mean by "met online"? I mean it was an online relationship for months before we even met, so literally discord calls all the time to spend time together/do stuff together until we could afford to move in together. Not "I texted her over instagram and met her the next day for coffee and then we fukt bruh" or something like that. Aside the fact there is an end result that ultimately has worked out and now turned into a real life relationship, I'm not sure what makes it not the same aside the OP clearly being immature and retarded. My point is just that there are a large number of relationships that start online, stay online for a good period of time, and end up in person and long lasting later on, especially when not started through sex/"dating" apps but through the same ways you start them irl for something healthy (friends, coworkers, etc where you have a foundation of something prior to starting dating). Based on the (probably LARP) posts by this "girl" both her and her boyfriend are clearly intending to end up as a real relationship. I don't see how that's any different (aside the weird shit) from how mine or many others have gone. I just don't like when people pretend online relationships are a joke when most people saying it don't have a relationship, many never have at all, and they ignore the fact that online relationships have the same success rates as relationships began IRL - not including sex/"dating" app "relationships" or retarded joke half-assed muh kitten shit of course.
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>>34465678
Kek this is completely retarded, thank you for the good post
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>>34467734
"E bf/gf" implies a level of flippancy that is not present in real, serious relationships. Would this poster really be wanting to cuck her boyfriend if she was in a relationship in real life with him? I think that most people who end up in these weird e relationships don't actually take them seriously at all, otherwise she would have just said "my bf", not "my e-bf". She's talking about wanting to cuck him before she turns the relationship into a in real life one, because she knows that there's a distinction between the two. YES, there are mature people who start relationships online which turn into marriage, kids, etc., but the vast majority, from what I can tell, have more in common with the discord kitten kind of stuff that you mention in your post.
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>>34465678
Where do you live? I’ll stretch you out for him
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Women like u are why rape should just be legal fucking whore
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>>34467770
give me an effing break, i said e-boyfriend because it’s online rn, not because it isn’t serious. it isn’t ldr because we haven’t met, it isn’t online because we haven’t met. i pick my words wisely and retards like you still misconstrue them to fit your incel mindset. poor poor you, i hope you can get esex to make you less sad.

anyhow, my bf & i are serious, & we’re planning on meeting within the year once i have enough money saved up.

>>34467916
i’m going to sodomize you so it’s okay to try raping ceemel ⸜(。˃ ᵕ ˂ )⸝

i honestly thought you retards would let this thread die ~~~ it’s cute that you’re all desperate to make sense of my domme thinking. it’s fine!

i don’t really have an update to my thread because i haven’t talked to my boyfriend about the possibility of it yet, still working up to it by spoiling him in the mean time… the offers to rape me & stretch me out are nice though, if anyone is in FL, then maybe one day you’ll have the chance to! though a reminder that i really am below average ^^; don’t be too disappointed! bless
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>>34468341
bring your boyfriend to suicide to spare him from further disappointment
this thread is so pathetic
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>>34465678
>>34469359
>bring your boyfriend to suicide to spare him from further disappointment
Nothing will top this post in terms of wisdom
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Tldr but samefag >>34459479
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>>34465678
Nice bait.



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