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If she is such a homebody tell her to come for some coffee at home and then play a game or some shit

If she really is that interested (as even the friends told you, they will gaslight her into doing it), she will come over and the rest follows up naturally

If she doesnt you might just be getting played, sorry

>>34467205
From my limited experience in dating, I've learned one thing: get a girl in your house, or you in her house, is the most chad, potential for something to happen move. If you can get her and you in either of your places, you've won

>>34467205
It sounds like she's really anxious. Maybe you two could meet at the gaming club again and just chat about your favorite games together? It might be a familiar enough place to help break the ice. You could also call each other or text instead, use that to help ease her into a face to face conversation. You're going to have to be careful here, because it already sounds like she's struggling through a lot of her own thoughts just to meet you. Don't take it personally if she suddenly ghosts you at this point. I think being gentle and persistent with her would work best. Give her that "supportive scaffold" to lean on to so to speak and leave the door open to her if she needs to take additional time. Also important; when you got pissed, what was going in your mind? What assumptions were there? Expectations unmet? Memories of prior negative experiences? It's important to sort these thoughts out because someone socially anxious like her could be very sensitive to any negativity in your voice. Not just her, but women in general really.

>>34467205
ask her what she likes to eat and then offer to hang out at her place where you bring that food with you. basically lunch/dinner date at her place.

should be cake my dude

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So I did meet with her and she was sweet. She said her main hobbies were reading/writing stories and relaxing with music. She said she only showed up at the gaming club that same day I met her, and doesn't really game as she was looking to do something with her writing in the club. I think she did try her best in trying to ask me questions about myself when there was a bit of silence, but it was fine, and I told her I liked talking to her, and we should do this again sometime. BUT she is so introverted that when I asked for a hug at the end, she gave a bit of a shocked expression to which I just said to not worry about it, and she said sorry, but then I said there's nothing to apologize about. I know this is going to be real slow lol

>>34467616
That's a little hard since we both live at home lol she also said her parents are kind of controlling...

>>34471746
yeah, I might call her or play something with her online even though she said she doesn't game much. I didn't show her anything of me being pissed, more pissed because she stood me up since I've been stood up on dates before. Once she told me what happened I was more like okay, makes sense.

>>34471776
that sounds good

>>34467205
>I met this nerdy, meek girl at a gaming club on campus months ago and started talking to her again recently.
>I asked her out for coffee, and then she gave me a whole list on how she has social anxiety, and she's an extreme homebody but would still like to meet me, even though ordering coffee gives her anxiety.
She's getting plowed by the football team as we speak.

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>>34472937
No!

If possible meet at her place. It's likely the most comfortable place for her to be.

>>34467205
invite her home