Can someone please explain to me why the millennial and boomer women in my family seethe when I tell them that I'm not interested in dating, marriage, or having children? I try to explain my reasoning by mentioning current societal issues and divorce trends but they won't listen, instead they spout the same ‘counterarguments’ over and over:>"You can't have an opinion on dating because you've never experienced it.">"It's not all women.">"So what, you plan to be a bachelor your whole life?">"So I won't become a grandmother?">"Who will take care of you when you're older?">"I'm sure you'll change your mind, [insert name of cousin here] got married last year.">"Are you gay?">”Statistics aren’t real life.”>”Do you hate women or something?”>"You just have to meet the right girl.">”What about the family name?”>"YOU'RE SELFISH REEEEE”It’s as if they can’t fathom the fact that I will be alone and celibate my whole life. Does this scare them? It's exhausting having these conversations at every family gathering, and I have a cousin’s wedding to attend next month. You should see the look on their faces when I say that I do not want to get trapped into paying child support or alimony when the marriage inevitably fails. I've seen so many people that I know get cheated on and their lives are subsequently upended by their promiscuous girlfriends and wives. It's truly an epidemic. And on top of all of that, there’s a growing STD problem with people lying or not reporting their infections and knowingly spreading it to other people. I just can’t trust people, so forgive me if I don't want to participate in this humiliation ritual.>inb4 I CAN’T BREEDYou’re not even wrong, I have a myriad of reproductive issues that would make any potential sex life absolutely pitiful, and I don’t want to go through that embarrassment. My family doesn’t know about these issues, and they’ll never find out.Any advice?
>>34467320>It's exhausting having these conversations at every family gathering>I have a cousin’s wedding to attend next monthDo you even want to be there? Have you considered not showing up?
>>34467851>Do you even want to be there?I actually do, he's my first cousin and I absolutely want to support him. I won't let a relatively small issue like this prevent me from having a good time.
>>34467886Alright, in regards to stopping the nagging I think I would tell them "if and when I encounter the right one I'll let you know". And that wouldn't be misleading because from what I've gathered from your post you think finding someone compatible is so unrealistic that time spent dating is almost guaranteed to be a waste of time and that is why you lack interest. However, if you were to find a unicorn that's perfect for you, whatever that means to you, wouldn't you accept that kind of relationship?
>>34467938>However, if you were to find a unicorn that's perfect for you, whatever that means to you, wouldn't you accept that kind of relationship?I'm honestly not sure. Personally, I believe sex is the glue that holds most relationships together, and if I can't perform well in bed due to my reproductive issues, then that relationship is bound to fall apart at some point. Besides if I did find the perfect woman in my eyes, the last thing I'd want to do is disappoint her.
>>34467320>Can someone please explain to me why the millennial and boomer women in my family seethe when I tell them that I'm not interested in dating, marriage, or having children?Boomers because they can't comprehend that you don't want to engage in the ponzi scheme of a social system of spitting out new spawn to support the future geriatric generation. Millennials probably because they are in the baby rabies age range now.
>>34467320Simply do the following: don't go to family gatherings, don't talk to anyone in the family (and if you do, be generic in your responses and say you don't like conversations), and the final ultimatum is to live alone, so you will be alone and won't have to deal with anyone in your family in person and can only talk to them online.
>>34467320>Anons from age 12 to 30>"Reee why don't family let me be a loner?">Anons from age 30 onwards>"WTF Why did my shit family never taught me these things? I swear, the selfish pricks!"What an aloof retard. You simply move out dumbass, but that Implies not being a kid, which you are.Only death cures a fool. You will learn the hard way.
>>34469403I'm Canadian, have you seen our house prices?
>>34469367Like I said before, my relationship with my family is pretty good, they've never done anything that warrants me not speaking to them. I just want them to accept the fact that I won't date or get married.
>>34467973> reproductive issuesyou have ED from all the hentai, don't you anon...
>>34471739It's not even ED, it's downwards Peyronie’s disease which in turn caused retrograde ejaculation. There's no way I can properly pleasure a woman.
>>34471778damn that sucks. and I'm assuming surgery isn't a solution?
>>34471855Not really since it's a deep tissue problem. In terms of the retrograde ejaculation, treatment with medications such as Imipramine is possible, but it's primarily used as an antidepressant, and I don't ever want to take those, I've seen too many people become fucked up from them.
>>34471778You know you have a mouth and fingers.Also sex toys exist.So no matter your penile issues you can.For most women, sex isn't about an amazing PIV performance.It's often more the intimacy, trust and listening to each others needs.Some women don't think like this, but not the right ones for you.
>>34467320>Can someone please explain to me why the millennial and boomer women in my family seethe when I tell them that I'm not interested in dating, marriage, or having children?because they've seen it all, 70% of people who say that when they're young end up wishing they had kids later in lifeand tehy don't want you to regret the life you're living right nowI can't tell you if they're right or wrong in your particular case, you only asked to know what do they do this, I'm telling you why
