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>some girl who I don’t know or follow liked my months-old post on instagram this morning
>shes attractive so I request to follow her
>she accepts my request and follows me back
>i dm her asking how she found my post. She said instagram suggested my account to her
>we get a conversation going and I ask her out
>she sends pic related
>i check her profile and she indeed has a bf
Is she sincere in her message here, or is she just saying this in the hopes I can make her physically cheat on her bf once we meet?
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>>34467699
Why would you want to cuck yourself?
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>>34467711
What are you talking about? How would I be the one getting cucked here?
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>>34467699
she should've worded it strongly that she won't tolerate potential home wreckers
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>>34467699
She likely wants to have you around for a "just in case" scenario.
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>>34467699
Only one way to find out.
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How the hell do guys like you even spend time on this site if you can get an attractive girl to consider cheating on her boyfriend with u?
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>>34467699
>or is she just saying this in the hopes I can make her physically cheat on her bf once we meet?
She's telling you "don't flirt with me, don't try anything funny, don't get the wrong impression." She is setting a boundary. And if you think she secretly wants you to cross that boundary, you are going to be socially humiliated or possibly assaulted by her boyfriend.
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>>34467950
>if you can get an attractive girl to consider cheating on her boyfriend with u?
this isn't that hard anymore, and it sucks being the guy on either side.

it's really annoying getting girls constantly cheating on their bfs for you but then you're left ignored immediately when it's over. there's no consistency.

i don't want meaningless sex even with a cute girl, i want a consistent happy relationship.
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>>34467744
The woman you would be involved with would be fucking another man who is more important to her than you are. If that doesn't constitute you being cucked, I don't know what does.
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>>34467699
she's obviously entertaining the idea. for starters, she is not repulsed and seems to be carrying the conversation alright. i'd proceed, she already said you're cool. maybe she's having problems in her current relationship and wants is looking for the next suitor

>>34468250
if she gave a fuck she wouldn't be cheating (or liking some random guy's posts)
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>>34468220
>this isn't that hard anymore,
If the girl really is attractive, then it is that difficult. You make it seem as if most men are able to womanize whoever they want.
>>34468250
This is major cope. The bf always gets the short end of the stick in these situations, especially if the other guy (like op) gets to fuck her.
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>>34468274
Not any woman they want, maybe not even the majority. But a large chunk of women, especially attractive women, are just complete whores now.

Its not that I can casually pull any 10 I want, but I've slept with multiple 7-8s who had boyfriends. Though in my defense I didn't know that at the time. So many of these girls these days just want instant gratification, if their boyfriend is boring or busy on the day they want to go out, they'll just instantly cheat on him.
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>>34468300
Women always had these tendencies, but they were just unable to act upon them in the past due to cultural shaming and laws. Her "loyalty" to you is based on the fact that she has no other preferable options
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>>34468269
>maybe she's having problems in her current relationship and wants is looking for the next suitor
Listen to yourself.

Like yes, op, you can get pussy. But this type of monkey branching behavior tells me that this woman isn't for the streets, she isn't the street - nigga SHE *BUILT* THE STREETS DOG, SHE *BUILT* THE FUCKIN STREETS

So if you get involved with that, always fucking remember that this girl is yet another of billions of women who are too scared to be alone and break up, so they just break their man's heart and leaving him in the dirt while filling themselves with another man's cock, cum, and burying themselves softly in his scent all night. While you lay in your bed, crying, in-between sad fapping to memories of her and you.

T. Exactly this happened to me. You're trash and she's trash if you do it, but at least know that she's not for a relationship if you do go for it. Because yes, she'll do it to you.
All humans are capable of deception, most women actively and gladly engage in deception, but for a woman to get caught in deception confirms for sure that she is not worth it, to make a fucking understatement.
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>>34468269
I was thinking of replying with "Sure, no worries. We can set something up sometime."
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>>34467699
Don't be a homewrecker anon. Dont be a pos
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>>34468703
He's a desperate simp orbiter they never listen to reason. The only thing that gets it into their skull is a punch to the teeth. That or whenever they get a girlfriend and someone fucks their girl then it's all tears and screams and "boohoo how could this happen to meeeee"

He's retarded so don't bother trying to talk sense into him.
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>>34468718
Considering he's straight up ignoring replies, yes, I agree, he's a lost cause on top of being retarded
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I hate people like OP. You're a homewrecker and just want to fuck this girl. Now, if she is easily swayed into having male friends or whatever, then you're both trash.
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>>34468718
>He's a desperate simp orbiter
So any man who fucks a woman with a bf/husband is a desperate simp orbiter?
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>>34468852
you haven't even met her OP
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>>34468020
The correct answer, OP is probably a dribbling moron that is so desperate and deluded he thinks a random stranger will meet and fuck him.
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>>34467699
ask her out on a date and ask to fuck, if she says no rape her
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>>34468852
>So any man who fucks a woman with a bf/husband is a desperate simp orbiter?
Yes, every single one. And it does not matter if that simp orbiter has succeeded or failed at doing it, or if he has fucked 1,000 taken women, the man is still a man whose soul is an empty infected wound that no amount of female attention can fulfill. A fucking simp who wears pussy like an oxygen mask just to feel right in himself. It's pathetic
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>>34468995
sounds like virgin cope
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>>34468869
>he thinks a random stranger will meet and fuck him
Right, because women never fuck strangers.
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>>34467699
You asked her out.
She responded saying only friendly or professionally because you seem "cool".

I don't know what you suggested you two do, but no faithful woman would go on platonic date with a man she found "cool" from Instagram who asked her out on a date.

Her message to you is basically, "I have a boyfriend but I'm still willing to hangout with you one on one, so if I end up eventually kissing or sleeping with you, it's your fault because I warned you I had a boyfriend."

She is offloading the responsibility to you.

A faithful girlfriend would just say, "Sorry I have a boyfriend and don't hangout one on one" and leave it at that.

A few years ago I cold approached a girl at the grocery store. Chatted her up, flirted and suggested we go out for boba to get to know each other. She responded with, "By the way I have a boyfriend." I said, "Oh yeah?" she replied, "But we can still go out for boba"

I told her no worries and excused myself.

Now, we could have went out for boba, I could have flirted with her and it could have lead to a hookup. But I don't really want to spend time with a woman who has a boyfriend and still goes out with men on single hangouts.
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>>34467699
Wtf did you post that made you seem ohhhh so cool omggg!!1! Is this how azoomers mating call these days like wut
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>>34469196
Wow I can't believe she is down to cheat desu
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>>34469824
It may genuinely be a "platonic" hangout but the core issue is that she is willing to hang out with a random guy from IG she thought was "cool".

At the very minimum she is testing the water. If you (or OP) vibes together it will probably lead to more one on one hangouts and if flirting is involved things will naturally escalate.

So it's up to you (or OP) to decide how you want to move forward.

Just be forewarned that if she does kiss or sleep with you, she will definitely do it to you when she finds another guy that piques her interest.



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