Every guy is having sex except me. This makes me feel less than, and also lowers my confidence. In order to build this confidence, I need to have sex with women. But to get sex with women, I apparently need confidence. How the fuck do you solve this equation?
>>34469410imagine sex in your own headthat's what you were doing alreadyall you need to do is remind yourself that you're not insecure emasculate loser on 4chins.orgshould be easy to stroke your egoget into the lookmaxxing scene or someshit
>>34469410Pay for sex. That will prime your confidence.
>>34469410>In order to build this confidence, I need to have sex with women.this absolutely isn't true. there are, for instance, very confident and sociable Mormon guys at byu who socialize and date good looking women and just don't fuck as a lifestyle choice. you need practice interacting with women regularly to get confidence, it doesn't have to lead anywhere
>>34469612I don't want to just talk to women. I want to fuck them. I want to be the guy they do their "fun" years with.
>>34469627>being manly is pleasuring womensounds like a complexionyou should seek someone who loves you because of who you are.
>>34469410The average guy is not having more sex than you. It's still the top 10% getting the top 50% of women.
>>34469627no shit. i didn't post that to recommend you do the same thing, i did it to disprove the "you need to get sex from woman to get confidence" point that's keeping you stuck. it's not true. non sex havers develop confidence with women, that was my point.
>>34469627Once it's too late it'll be easier to accept that it won't happen. It feels different when you're late 20s and girls your age are past their prime by 10 years.
Also just pay for it. You'd be surprised how fun it can be. It's not soulless and transactional like you might imagine
>>34469798Huh, can you go into more depth on this.
>>34469812You can have a good time with a prostitute, they can make it feel genuine, you know they're doing their job but it still feels like an organic experience between two people.
>>34469612but do they "soak"?
>>34469410Why do you put so much stock on sex? Because that's what the world tells you to do? C'mon, Mr Atreides.
>>34469410I had sex very easily at 12 because I was a very attractive child and stuff was weird back thenthen I grew up a shy and clumsy teen, and didn't get pussy from those 6 months of having sex when I was 12 all the way to 20 or 21I got a hookerdemystified sex back againgot into dating with renewed confidence, no desperation to have sex, and knowing how to please an adult women.Anywaysget a hooker and stop trying to give 1000 spins to the problem.also it's just sex, you'll see it once you've had it, reminds me to kids who see driving as this magical freeing thing and once they can drive themselves it's the most mundane thing ever.just do it, don't over think it
>>34469410you must know suffering.https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=FgxacX72snA
>>34469446Or make you hate yourself enough to go over the edge. Either way its a win
>>34469764Youre saying you just need attention from women to be confident you fucking retard
>>34469410Go to >>>/r9k/
>>34469410I'm not having sex.
>>34471025Yes you are.
>>34469410At some point in your life you have to learn this fact:All - and I mean ALL - guys lie about their sex lives. There is, in fact, a wnole lot less sex going on out there than you think. A whole lot less. You are not as much of an outlier as you think.
>>34469627>>34469786Early 30s anon here. I got all my pussy in my late 20s/earlier 30s. It gets depressing, especially now the tap is turned off and I don't even get that anymore. I wanted a forever girl.
Probably because you imagine yourself as that faggot. You thought he looked cool, didn't you?
>>34471165He does look cool!
>>34469446>pay for sex with an ugly tired woman who hates you and is clock watching it to be over the entire time while other guys got young hot woman for free who at least pretended to love them or at least be attracted to themYou have no idea how much paying for sex would wreck your confidence and make you hate both normal men and women for the luxury they take for granted
>>34469446>>34470417>>34471241>>34469410I lost my virginity with a hooker at 25 yo after my pc broke and I was boredSex felt really good, but it felt 10 times better when I earned it from a girl I actually like and care aboutStill, I wouldn't recommend because there are lots of scammers and OP sounds a little dumb
>>34471395I'm quite intelligent actually.
>>34469410An Alpha would find the sexless men and feminize them. He doesnt let the world tell him no.
>>34469410sex means nothing, what you need is to start a business so you rise a family
>>34469410Have sex with fat bitches. You don't need as much confidence to fuck ugly fat bitches. And then build yourself up from there. It might not be pretty, but it works.
>>34469410>In order to build this confidence, I need to have sex with women. But to get sex with women, I apparently need confidence. How the fuck do you solve this equation?You learn how to mimic confidence convincingly.
>>34469410Incels:>Every guy is having sex except me.Also incels:>80-90% of men are incels just like me>le west has fallen!>In order to build this confidence, I need to have sex with women.Uh, no? I mean I guess it's one way, but you can build confidence in yourself in any number of ways. For most people it's just a matter of having basic pride and not hating yourself. Also there's no guarantee that you would gain confidence even if you had sex until and unless the underlying issues within yourself are addressed first.Also depending how far gone you are you might not be best served even worrying about having sex with them. Build up the confidence just to be comfortable in your own skin and talk to them first.
>>34469410>every guy is having sex except meFirstly, that's wrong:https://ifstudies.org/in-the-news/adults-are-having-less-sex-than-ever-with-gen-z-seeing-the-steepest-decline-studySecondly, does it make you feel better if you act like some kind of "it's not fair woe is me I'm all alone" victim? If so, you're fucked. Royally. Nothing but serious self reflection and ego death will fix you.
>>34469627>I want to be the guy they do their "fun" years with.But are you "fun" though? We both know the answer is no.
>>34469410>everything men do is for pussyThere are so many people on the on self improvement train the past two decades it's unreal, and I'm not talking about gym because many of them don't even hit the gym but instead do other activities, I'm talking about making money, being social, doing activities, hobbies, just keeping busy in general and making their life as interesting as possible to attract pussy. They are doing all that for pussy, constantly chasing a better looking pussy, younger, fresher, etc. until eventually they find one they are satisfied with so they can fertilize it but even then many of them continue to chase pussy on the side. Some of these boomers are 70+ and still chase pussy, that's right many divorced boomers have girlfriends, just look at that tremendous Eastwood faggot who found a new pussy at 70 or 80 and married for the 6th time. Not to mention famous chads like Julio Iglesias who had thousands of pussies throughout his life.All that self-improvement, customs, social mores, hobbies, cultural events and other activities people do is to attract pussy so they can breed the next generation of goyim cattle and feel desired, loved and appreciated by their pussy and progeny.
What should I do if I feel like I'm being shamed for my lack of sex and porn indulgence but also being snubbed by women as being "pathetic" for not having any game?
>>34475170Females: get raped form infancy to gray hairAlso females: dresses like whores and literally ask for it
>>34475173I am a victim of a gynocentric feminazi world. I am a nice guy and deserve sex, even retroactively, since I was a preteen.
>>34475207''Fun'' just means good looking, ''boring'' means ugly.
>>34475331Ok, so why do you expect to be treated like a good looking guy then, when you're obviously not good looking either?
>>34469410Read a letter pinned by Benjamin Franklin called "Advice to a Friend on Choosing a Mistress".
Real talk- i've slept with numerous models and i'm 35, but the best advice for someone like you is to just be arrogant instead of confident and some girl who's even more insecure than you will latch onto you because she's broken or has abandonment issues. This is your best bet for someone who's not been socialised correctly. You should also start compartmentalising your lack of sex as having romantic integrity or something, you need the cope that's right for your situation, at least to stop feeling like a loser. Don't pay for sex, it's damaging for a part of your ego you need intact to have a healthy relationship. Its like if you need Viagra to get hard eventually you'll require- you already sound pretty insecure so don't give yourself another complex.
>>34471079Truth.Women hit a cliff on sex drive too at some point well before men. Sex can be pleasurable but for many women it just isn't that good.
