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>F19
>average looks
>fairly androgynebrained
>maybe 90% male hobbies
>hate wearing women's clothes so i avoid except for formal events where it would draw too much attention
>live in south, don't want low T new england libfag husband
>Catholic & won't compromise on religion & sex before marriage

I've only ever gotten overt attention from guys who are socially inept or I thought were gay before they told me. Am I being too picky? I've been led to believe being a tomboy or having male hobbies or whatever is only attractive if the woman is also semi-feminine and exceptionally pretty. Are there actually guys who like women like this who aren't also total retards or should I just female eunuchmaxx
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>>34470123
you will never be a real moid
no matter how much you try
you should pepper spray maxx instead you sheltered dummie
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>>34470123
Maybe you're not feminine enough for masculine guys
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>>34470123
>wants the kind of guy that likes very feminine girls
>behaves nothing like it
bro, be for real
if a dude wants a stacy he changes his appearance, wardrobe and a bit of his behavior to attract those kinds of women
why would it be different for a woman? just because she's a woman?
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Get a load of this genius. Is too afraid to be around men who are of lesser intelligence so makes her life miserable trying to get badass intellects only to find none of them like her because she isn't at their level, so she desperately tries too hard. Makes me glad I never had honor roll classes or was put in elite classes full of people who pick on those lesser than.
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>Catholic & won't compromise on religion & sex before marriage
You know that this is a dealbreaker for at least 95% of men right?
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>>34470341
but that's because men are whores
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why are you only considering the east coast? both Yankees and southerners are insufferable about how women "should be." there's literally tons of manly men in Colorado and Wyoming and the mountain West that don't give a shit if you wear jeans all the time and like outdoorsy shit. you're getting bad results because you live in a retarded part of the country that doesn't like people who are different
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>>34470351
And women aren't?
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>>34470123
The guys who post shit about the lack of 'tomboy gf' are most coomers and get their ideas of that is from anime.
Honestly though, I just assume girls like you are all lesbians. Most normal guys probably do the same. So you'll probably have to make the first move if you want someone normal.
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>>34470123
The kind of guy you're looking for is out there, it's just going to take patience. You're looking for somebody with virtue, and virtues are by their very nature rare and exceptional. If they were common or expected behaviors they wouldn't be virtues. There's no sense in worsening yourself by chasing fashion trends in order to appeal to a lower mentality. Be as good and honest as you can be so that you can be with somebody who's being as good and honest as he can be.
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>>34470123
men aren't attracted to butch mid-ugly half dykes who work on cars. Wear dresses and take up knitting instead.
The new england anti racist basedboy is EXACTLY your match.
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>>34470123
what hobbies do you have?
t. shy midwesterner virgin boy xD
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>>34470123
I think you may be thinking about yourself too much
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>>34470123
>live in south
I have a solution but the answer depends on how much land you own and whether you have siblings amongst whom the land will be divided
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>>34471199
Those virtues are only proven in the time of crisis, be it an immediate crisis or a long drawn out one
Everyone else like to believe they have virtue
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>>34470123
>Am I being too picky?
yeah you are, and i suggest you drop using all the cringe internet meme buzzwords to describe the world before it gets any worse for you. there's nothing more uneducated than people using that kind of slang IRL.
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>>34470123
Feminity attracts masculinity, and vice versa.
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Why do you hate wearing women's clothing? I am a man and an incel, so I may be a poor candidate to give you advice, but I am a fellow conservative Christian who also wouldn't want to have sex outside of marriage. I, personally, think tomboyish traits are attractive, but a woman hating women's clothing is unattractive. I think the large majority of conservative Christian men would also find a woman not dressing like a woman unattractive.

Perhaps your idea of what is women's clothing comes from how wordly people dress. You can dress like a woman without showing cleavage or wearing makeup. I know gendered dress can but culturally subjective, but I think it's a way to respect the objective separation in genders that the Lord has made.

Are you looking for other Christian men? I think they may be the only ones who would also want to abstain from sex until marriage. You'd surely get a ton of matches on Christian dating websites (as all women get a ton of attention on all dating websites).



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