>>34470547
stop being an incel loser violent harasser manipulative sociopath and be normal

>>34470559
You sound like a 18 year old girl who doesn't care about me.

>>34470566
well I don't know you so I don't care about you, but I am trying to help.
What did you do to get girls to start calling you these things? Is it deserved? If you've done nothing to get these titles than I'm sorry anon, but if you have then not being that way is the simple answer

>>34470597
It started my entire life when people hated me for just being me.

>>34470547
Chin the cunt

>>34470666
Astronomically retarded take.

Transition. If you're a woman or dickgirl violent sociopath harasser loser it's hot and no one will call you out, you can still fuck and date and marry.

>>34470623
Women will call you wll types of dumb shit bc theyre mad but we need a better reason if youre not really a scumbag

>>34470687
Women get away with sexual assault all the time in my town every where I go o get molested by some creepy femcel

>>34470690
I am a nerd I guess?

>>34470716
Not good enough. What the fuck did you actually do to get these accusations?

>>34470721
Why are you angry? You got my answer.

>>34470721
Anon, he's just socially awkward all the time. People fix him too much instead of actually try to do something with him socially.

There's probably a guy in his college who is telling him to do a lot of weird shit and he does it since he sees him with girls and he goes to parties.

>>34470733
Okay I guess nothing ever changes and I am destined to harass and upset women forever then, no mind the thousands of other men who beat their wives or abused others, I'm the worst because I'm an incel, gotcha.

>>34470757
Stop calling yourself an incel. It is a Reddit term. You are a guy who just happens to have a lot of bad luck. Maybe you have good luck in other areas, but you got bad luck with women like me. I may be some mentally insane loser, but I believe beating yourself up is not a healthy thing to do. Next girl you try to date, be yourself and do not follow some douchebag's advice on how to get girls okay? That collegue of yours may be getting chicks doing the weird shit he does, but you are not him you are you.

>>34470623
if you actually didn't harass or manipulate anybody and some girls are calling you a harasser or manipulator then those girls are just being mean because of your appearance or something. Not everybody is like that, if you just look like a nerd most people in the world aren't going to just pin all this negative incel shit on you for it. This is why everybody here doesn't believe you off the bat, it's just an unlikely thing for a single person to do, never mind all women.
Are you in high school or something? Kids are mean in school, it gets better.
That said if you actually do align with all these ideologies that surround incels and you've been vocal about it then it's no wonder. Identifying publicly as an incel is going to get that reaction. If you're just a nerd who can't get laid you shouldn't be calling yourself an incel, because all that other shit comes with it

>>34470764
>you've been vocal

I haven't been vocal, I was forced into a lot of things.

>>34470763
>Maybe you have good luck in other areas.

I don't think this is true for me, things are going to get worse for me in the future.

I resent the idea that I am an incel or violent loser when I don't have any option. If I sit at home and rock back and forth in my bed eventually I will have to leave my room to buy groceries, work a job, walk, I guess I don't care anymore, I just don't have the courage to kill myself.

>>34470773
forced? why can't you explain what you did? You hiding it doesn't make it look good.
Of course you don't have to do anything, but if you explain what you did we could look at it and maybe point out your actions that would result in getting called these things. I mean if you know that you harassed or manipulated someone then it's a no-brainer, but
>what do I do?
makes me think you're looking to improve and move past this behavior, which we could try to help with

You know I'm just going to act retarded and clueless that's how the world works I guess, smart people get destroyed.

>>34470791
>why can't you explain what you did?

I do a lot of things, I sit at home and rock back and forth, but if I made up something like "I stole an orange" you'd immediately think I am going to go on a murder spree next.

I cooked myself pulled pork sandwiches yesterday, are you all going to lock me up for that? Cooking for myself? Fuck you.

>>34470797
lol no I wouldn't. I genuinely want to help, I can't speak for others here though
>I was forced into a lot of things.
this is the one that sounds like you did something bad, but even if you did you're not an unforgivable monster. Everybody can learn and grow.
When I was a kid I was very much on the path of becoming an incel, but I did manage to get through it into having a normal social/dating life in my 20s. I could maybe have some advice to offer you if you want it, but you have to talk to me. Otherwise all I can say is you're probably not a monster and I hope you can improve your mental health

im just going to act retarded and avoid everybody until things improve

>>34470809
Well the problem is I am an unwanted child from my parents, who split up and never wanted anything to do with me.

So I "feel" bad by that right, and society also, since we're all human, have that same disdain for me.

So the feelings of "good" and "bad" get mixed up.

What I will say though, is that I don't take this "bad" feeling and think "therefore I will harass women!".

>>34470809
I wouldn't know what makes a person a monster, probably their parents.

>>34470814
Brother nobody can tell you how to improve and/or stop being seen as harassing women if we have no idea what made them allege you of harassment in the first place, it's that simple

I doubt your like the incel currently harassing & stalking me across 5 or 6 different platforms that I barely even use, sending me money without being asked, & pm'ing me about his dreams of meeting, cuddling & fucking me

So give us more to work with, otherwise dodging around all day just looks like you just wanna vent

>>34470814
>I don't take this "bad" feeling and think "therefore I will harass women!"
well that's good at least.

It's a very unfortunate situation you've got there with your parents. I had a friend once who lived with her shitty dad who got evicted and he just moved in with his girlfriend and never found a place for her, I had to let her live with me for a bit and that shit was hard to see. I'm sorry you have to deal with that, genuinely unfair and of course nobody deserves that.

Do you think these bad feelings you have stemmed from your parents and society end up bottled up a bit, and then maybe come out through resentment on people in your life when they aren't being good to you? If this is what happened to get people to start calling you these names, then there is something to work with there... people don't usually go about treating other people assuming they've got some built up resentment and so they tend to be not so careful about that stuff. If you didn't have any of this stuff built up inside you, you'd probably react to stuff much less extreme, so when you do end up coming off intensely and resentfully towards people it puts them off. This isn't to say any of this is your fault, you got dealt a shitty hand of cards, and unfortunately it is your responsibility to work with it. Other people probably should be nicer to you, but if the two options are stay at home and self-pity all the time or work with what you have and try to be more empathetic to people who don't know your circumstances, the latter is the better option, even if it's inherently unfair that the burden is put on you.

I'm assuming a lot with that last paragraph but you're not giving me too much so it's all I got for now, sorry if I'm misjudging

>>34470830
You should stop talking to that person, money is a really sure-fire way to make emotions run high and that person will want to punish you to recoup losses. Not to mention that the situation is because you're young and un-aware that person is mentally ill, the internet is no joke.

>you just wanna vent
I do, a lot of people deliberately make me upset and angry so they have an excuse to say "see, he IS violent man after all!", which is really my problem and reason for making this thread. I have just asked for therapy from a local clinic, and for all I know they will turn me away.

>>34470733
Stfu schizoid. Larp harder.

>>34470836
I blocked the guy 5 times by now lol

>a lot of people deliberately make me upset and angry
Sounds more like they're bullying you, and less like you're an actual incel. You need to find a different crowd if you can. Dunno what your situation is on that front...

>>34470832
I mean I think a lot of what happened to me could have been avoided, and I know that could be said about many people, real people who were abused by their parents, but then so what do we do?

What kind of example does it set when the people like me who are supposed to be good also had our own problems?

A jeet who can't even fathom a way to speak 2 full coherent english sentences in a row is wondering why everyone hates him, Yeah figures out lmaoo

>>34470858
You should block him and avoid these kinds of pointless encounters in the future, you're using your time better by helping me, even if your advice is telling me I am a friendless loser.

>>34470547
Has anyone ever said this to you, or are you imagining it? Heard it on the Telly?
My advice is avoid the source of this negative energy

>>34470559
But normal is loser violent manipulative

>>34470860
I mean unfortunately at the end of the day you do need to be nice to people despite the realities of your life. People don't know what you're going through. You don't deserve to have shitty abusive parents, and they don't deserve to get freaked out on (probably, again I don't know what they did to you)

Being nice to people and forming friendships is going to be your one relief from your shitty home life. Don't look at people like enemies who are probably gonna hurt you, look at them like other regular people with regular (maybe shitty, maybe good) lives. They've got their own problems too and you don't know what they deal with, just like they don't know what you deal with.

Your parents are the first people you know and if they're shitty to you then it's gonna set an example for you that people generally want to hurt you. This isn't true though, most people don't. You have to just try to not let your home life affect how you act towards other people, and be empathetic towards them. If you do this you'll get friends, and these friends will be helpful and supportive, and you'll have some refuge from your home life

>>34470869
I'm a friendless loser myself fwiw but I prefer to call it highly selective about who I let into my life

I have no idea what your social situation even is. Do you work or study? Are these colleagues or fellow academics? Do you live rural, suburb, city, metropolis? You still haven't said why they allege you harass women. You gotta be trying to talk to them, no? Do they visibly get created out or just talk shit behind your back and you sooner or later find out?

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>>34470547
Stop surrounding yourself with people like that if you genuinely don't have incel tendencies.

(For anyone reading this)
Believe it or not some people like to call others "pedophile" or "child molester" simply because of that person's appearance &/or social awkwardness, these words eventually loose their original meaning because people enjoy using them to belittle others instead of growing up & realizing how immature they are.

>>34470890
I ended up being attracted to 2 women at work, and I decided to quit my job rather than let everybody spread rumors I was "one second away from attacking them" or something, this is the incel accusation in action, people think I am not just a normal dude like them for some reason, I guess it's just the good old human bullying mentality, "that boys a bad egg, he is" etc.

But the other fact is I was also battling a break-down in my life because my parents decided to fuck with me, now my grandparents are dead nobody is stopping them raising my anxiety, my worries etc, so no wonder I would throw tantrums at work, given how my parents are so evil.

It makes sense, I got fucked around over and over in life and I decided nothing matters, even though it does, good people out there need me to respect them, but given the mess my parents caused in my life, I need help.

It sucks, it actually fucking sucks how shit my life was over the last 10 years.

It's also worth writing that I am done with things going wrong in my life, I want things to be sorted out, I am fed up.

>>34470900
If you can, you need to get tf away from your parents & cut off contact, but ofc that's often easier said than done. Idk if you have online friends from gaming or w/e other communities that's close enough but not too close who might let you crash / consider becoming roomies. Personally did that. Needs someone you can trust ofc. My roomie had major issues with their parents so it even kinda came in handy for them lol. We both were able to move out by splitting the bills.

>>34470922
Thank you but my situation is a bit better in that government, social services will help me. I have basically cut off my parents because the last year or so they really showed how little they care about me.

I would like to move on though, I am worried I have fucked my life up permanently.

>>34470941
That's a start at least. Hang in there. Can't really advise on career since I'm a one-trick pony in limbo myself, but a new job should help, even if just to get yourself to drive out to new places & have a look around. At least that's my plan for now...

>>34470547
stay away from women until you get your shit figured out.
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=FgxacX72snA