dude im attracted to badboy fictional charactersdoes that mean i want to be teased? or am i into slowburn villains to lovers?Im and adult but still don't understand my sexuality yet
>>34470833i prefer buffy and spike
Do i think i can fix the badboy?
>>34470833>Im and adult but still don't understand my sexuality yetYour fantasies aren't the same thing as the practical realities of what you prefer in relationships. It's immature to think there's going to be noteworthy overlap between the two in the relationships you end up in.
>>34471005I don't see a point in being in a relationship if its not gonna be a slow burn, last time i was in a relationship (my first and only one) it was a disaster and not slow burn i was so desperate to be in a relatioship cuz i was a 23 yearold virgin im never doing that again, it was so fucking horrible and desperate and i was keeping it other and making all the moves and giving all the permissions, fuck that shit
>>34471024>keeping it otherkeeping it together
>>34471024are you ugly?
>>34471042Im average faced and fat but my fat distributes very well in a fetishist way. I didn't only fuck 1 person cuz im ugly or whatever, i just always wanted to be in a relationship/marriage
>>34471211Sounds like you need to set boundaries, if you're into slow burn you should make it clear that you're not going to give out sex early, or ideally before marriage>But guys will leave me thenThat's the idea, you're filtering
>>34470833What about them is appealing to you specifically? You can find people with morals that embody those traits (e.g. playful/flirty, tattoos/alt style).
