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>21 male
>Never had a best friend

Genuinely how do I find irl best friend? I went to 3 schools in Total and met absolutely no one, everyone already knew eachother and I always sat alone for the whole Highschool. I live in a small country and theres barely any cool people with the same interests as me, even if theres any im too much of a pussy to even talk to someone and I rarely leave my house and I tend to bedrot I want someone to hangout 24/7. I dont want to waste my early 20s in bed

I feel like everyone already have a friend that they know for 10+ years while I dont talk to anyone because of my huge social anxiety and look
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Just stop caring about rejection
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>>34470879
i really get you. if anything, we could try become friends? i'm a 20 yr old femanon and i made a new discord recently :D it's 3074436
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>>34470879
It all starts with "Hi."

Saying Hi to someone does not make them your best friend. It makes them an acquaintance. In fact, "acquaintance" can be defined as "someone you know well enough to say Hi to."

Collect enough acquaintances and your life is already better (All that saying Hi is actually quite pleasant). And, just naturally, some of them will evolve into stop-and-chat level. And some of THEM will evolve into arrange-to-meet-up friends. And THEN one or two of them might become best friends.
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>>34470879
>21 male
>Never had a best friend
Come to think of it I never had a best friend either, it's not something I think about much because I have way bigger problems I don't even want to get into here. My point is there are plenty of lonely people out there, you're not alone in that sense. Hopefully one day you cross paths with one of them and become good friends.
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>>34470879
friends are like shoes m8, they change with life circumstances.
I don't speak with my best friend because I fucked his other friend's girl and he got mad and thinks I'm an asshole (she came onto me)
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>>34470879
Just chill with people and have fun(and be authentically interested in them).
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>>34471031
Go jack off a horse nigga



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