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Can anyone give me advice on how to stop consistantly thinking that other people especially people on the internet are better than me?
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>>34471336
You just need to develop a sense of value. Only moral worth can make one person better than another, and you're the sole arbiter of your own moral worth. Someone who thinks that money, fame, beauty or power can give him worth is always going to feel outcompeted and will never be happy with himself or the world around him. Someone who cares only for his own integrity and adherence to principle will always be happy and fulfilled, because no force on this earth can force him to budge from principle.
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>>34471491
>You just need to develop a sense of value.
By doing something? I don't have any skills, accomplishments that I'm actually proud of.
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>>34471625
Not him but yes learn a marketable skill and get a good job and go from there. Get fit, get decent social skills, try dating, get hobbies, and you will be gucci. Yes some people are better than you but some people are worse than you.
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>>34471625
No, by introspecting. Meditate on what it means for a human life to have value, and change your values so that you can be proud of the traits that are within your reach. I'll start you off: It's logically necessary that a human being can only derive value from that which is in his complete control. If it didn't come from him, then it stands to reason that he has no right to be proud of it. That rules out wealth, appearance, fame and anything else that isn't 100% under your dominion.
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>>34471625
I know it ain’t cool to talk about myself but Idk you. I pre failed everything before I reached adulthood but eventually learned enough about my own interests to be an expert. Knowing yourself takes active involvement. Like driving in the rear view mirror to check for cops, look inside yourself as you go forward. An easy cheat code to better your lessers is to work at always telling the truth. It takes less effort with practice and it does not cost anything. Most everyone in the world is a lying fool who thinks they are special to their own detriment.
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>>34471336
you just need to realise theyre people like you, they have their own insecurities
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I am better than U tho
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>>34471644
>>34471691
I'm going to meditate for 1 week at least to see what value I can see in myself because right now I don't see anything. I feel like I'm always going to have this weakness.
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>>34473741
Niga, they just in their heads. Better to power through the day than this weird shit they do. Immaturely treating everything like a rap battle. How quaint. Real nigas work hard, fake nigas brag a lot and try to tear other people down.
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>>34471336
seek out lolcows online who are worse than you and laugh at them. Watch random police body cam videos on youtube too like EWU
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>>34471336
Work in a public facing job and realise most people are drooljng mouth breathers who are incapable of introspection
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>>34471336
You have loads of Free time
Look up CBT therapy
Get your vitamins and minerals checked
Join group hobby, keep those contacts seperate, limit them to their hobbies



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