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This is a serious question. I have an 11 cm penis and it utterly murdered my self-esteem. Especially in modern, social-media/internet world this whole thing is fucked. Women also watch porn now, they have access to biggest dick Chads on apps like Tinder, they go for local chads who already fucked dozens of their female friends etc.

Even seemingly innocent and "normal" girls will share the vids of themselves sucking random huge cocks on the "girl's group chat". On social media it's all ragebait content of girls saying they stayed with their cheating, toxic ex because his dick was gigantic and sex was good. Even on "sex ed" talks you will have "experienced girls" reassure guys and say "small dicks are fine and pleasured us just fine, i prefer big ones tho teehee" (very similar to height talk, i don't mind smaller guys it just so happens all my exes were 190cm+ with 20cm dicks each at least).

It's like the only solution is to unironically rope/become a monk or some shit because you will never EVER experience good and satisfying sex/backshots/whatever the fuck. It's grim.
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>>34474151
5'7 & haven't had sex in a whopping 12 fucking years. b/w years of 14 and 18 I had sex with 7 different females. On one of those occasions with one of those females, I was fingering her with my pointer finger, which I assure you is not 11 centimeters. Anyway, that merely back-and-forth motion, as if I were just tapping a button slowly but surely time and time again, made her quiver and just blew her hair back basically more than my much bigger cock had ever managed to for some reason. Why that is, I can't say, but the point is it's really not about the size, and that's just one of those things that gets brought up often. I know other guys who have probably similarly sized penises, and they have good relationships with their females just the same. I'm very confident that if you had stamina and a small dick but not too small, you'd be just fine. I can't imagine an 8-inch cock is in any way superior if it's a 2-pump chump, you know what I mean. Anyway, by that point if you got a girl naked in front of you and your cock was hard, I don't think she'd turn you down because it's not quite 20 centimeters or whatever.
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>>34474151
I was like you before, then I found /r/realitydick/ and watched a lot of women having fun with average/small dicks.
After that I just lost the last excuse I had.
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>>34474186
The issue is you have to perform circus acrobatics to pleasure a girl when sometimes you just want to regularly fuck her brains out but with small dick it's literally physically impossible. You won't even enter the fucking pussy. She won't feel "stretched out" etc.

Yes there are extreme cases of divorces and girls dumping guys because the dick was TOO big and hurt them, but those are rare as fuck.
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I am curious though what the fuck is the truth behind innocent or seemingly innocent normal girls sharing videos of themselves sucking penis, posting them wherever the fuck??? I am probably a little bit older than you but I really have a hard time believing that an average girl even in their teen years with 0 judgment would be so stupid to post a video on any corner of the Internet with their face being shown or their identity being known of them cock I mean obviously there's tons of porn videos out there with tons of girls we know that but the reality is that in the grand scheme of things there's seven fucking billion people

even if was 8in cock, wouldnt matter a bit, as I don't get laid no matter what but there have been a couple of incidents in my life where I felt a wee bit small I'm not going to lie to you. One occasion I was fucking this absolutely beautiful smoking hot supermodel 18 year old and as she was riding me which she did very well I was very conscious of her making distance between US and I was pushing my hips up so she went where my cock wouldn't come out of her and it just barely stayed in as if I had another inch or so that would have been much more convenient but it worked out on that occasion. On another attempt she wanted me to fuck her prone bone and I realized that I didn't really have the length for it embarrassingly enough. Whatever. One other girl a long time ago after we broke up she got a new boyfriend and was quick to let me know that this fucking cozy this this guy was so ugly she let me know that he had a bigger Dick than me OK that hurt don't know why she said that whatever. On another occasion I was with a girl and I actually liked this girl a lot too it's kind of fucked up but anyway for some reason she said that the guy she had sex with before me the only one had a bigger dick, which she later said the opposite was true. whatever, damage was done, why she'd say something hurtful is beyond me but prolly just immaturity.
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>>34474209
>I am curious though what the fuck is the truth behind innocent or seemingly innocent normal girls sharing videos of themselves sucking penis
that's just the distorted view of OP, he lives on social media and defeatist communities to have this point of view.
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>>34474196
Brother, I don't know what you're trying to say. I just explained to you that the mere pointer finger sliding in and out of this girl's cunt had her shaking, quivering, and basically feeling all sorts of ways that my much bigger cock could not or had never done, and that's after fucking her probably at least a couple dozen times, so I don't buy that a bit. If you're able to hit her from the back, she's not really going to notice a difference, I don't think. But what the fuck do I know? I don't take cock. Point is, my finger did it. It's a lot smaller and probably had something or a lot to do with the fact that it was able to stroke for a lot longer than I normally would have been able to do. I think women probably value stamina a whole fucking lot more than a couple extra inches; that's just my $0.02. Even on one occasion the same girl told me that her ex, the one ex she had before me, was bigger... and she took that back shortly thereafter and said the opposite. Whatever, I don't care at this point... first time fucking her, I had my actual cock in her for MAYBE 2 minutes and she was just floored by the stamina. 2 fucking minutes. Why? Because this bigger dick ex (maybe?), dude couldn't last 30 fucking seconds and that's to me I think a lot better or a lot more important I should say
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>>34474209
>their teen years with 0 judgment would be so stupid to post a video on any corner of the Internet with their face being shown or their identity being known
Did you miss the whole internet Fappening thing where ton of celebrity nudes and porn vids were leaked online? Girls are stupid and post that shit, especially on their group chats they naively believe are "private".
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>>34474151
you already have the answer, kys
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>>34474227
Nigger there's obviously a difference between assuming a sissyfied, lesbian-type position and fingering a girl and performing acrobatics to please her vs. fucking her brains out with backshots with your dick. Big dick guys can do both if you are so fucking obsessed with the former, yet for some reason girls prefer being stretched and fucked by huge cock and always at the end of the day go back to the big dick guy even if the other dude had best fingers on Earth.
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>>34474251
fine bro, be miserable your entire life. the point was to give my actual real life experiences both good and bad to the OP, with a silver lining to ease their mind.

If you truly think they ALWAYS go back to the bigger cock... that girlfriend who told me that her one and only ex boyfriend was bigger than me... after she said that, iirc, I told her something to the effect of "perfect - good to know - you can go fuck him again and get out of my life". She started crying and ended up having what I reckon is an average 6 inch cock in her pussy within the hour. For the 3rd time that day. As I was 18 and yeah things were better then.
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>>34474258
So she gave you a pity fuck, good to know.
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>>34474151
Most of what you're claiming here is fiction.
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>>34474151
You are presumably aware that women who have sex with other women have far higher sexual satisfaction scores than straight women do. How big do you imagine lesbians' partners dicks are?

>inb4 buh-buh-buh strap-ons
Lesbians don't actually use strap-ons much in real life, but let's pretend for the moment that they do: you're saying that using a dildo on a woman gives her better sexual satisfaction than any penis can? If that's true, then you have a solution to your problem, haven't you?
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>>34474310
>You are presumably aware that women who have sex with other women have far higher sexual satisfaction scores than straight women do. How big do you imagine lesbians' partners dicks are?
Different expectations. No lesbian expects another woman to fuck her brains out while men are expected to penetrate them with their cocks.
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>>34474258
We have threads like this every other day. OP doesn't want to hear actual /adv/ice per se. Because trying to apply advice implies OP is willing to get out his comfort zone and face his insecurities. But that's not the case. What he actually wants is validation and reassurance for his inadequacies that'll ultimately keep him stuck, but at least he doesn't have to face his fears (humiliation, rejection, mockery, etc.). To illustrate my point, you'll see that in every thread similar to this one, where there's an obvious inclination to indulge in helplessness and self-pity, that OP will eventually start arguing in favor of the very problem he was initially complaining about. Examples below:
>>34474196
>>34474251
>>34474262
>>34474385
Also, take in account this may be also one of those cases where OP started to fetishize his own insecureness and is probably jerking off while he engages with other anons. Well, sorry for the long post. Remember to sage this thread and similar ones.
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>>34474151
>Even seemingly innocent and "normal" girls will share the vids of themselves sucking random huge cocks on the "girl's group chat".
this doesn't happen
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>>34474151
You have two options, don't give a shit and try to have as much sex as possible. Or have no sex. Reality is, girls won't be satisfied with your size. Sadly. But that's not really your issue. Pump and dump bro.
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>>34474151
If u watch dick, u think dick, u despise dick, u desire dick
U think like woman, woman think same
U become woman
Stop watch porn
Think career, go to bangkok, but bang fat bitch
Be happy
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>>34474385
>Different expectations
No. Women who have sex with women have far more frequent and more reliable orgasms than women who have sex with men. Why do you think that is?

>>34474424
I'm a guy, but whatever.
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>>34474151
>I have an 11 cm penis
You can use tools. It's not a big deal, women can cum from using their fingers. As long as it's not a microdick or an actual condition, you should be fine, really.
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>>34475287
You guys aren't getting it. Women aren't really chasing orgasms. They really are chasing big dick. Thats just the truth. For them, cumming is the cherry on top. The main source of pleasure for women is being fucked by a big masculine dick. It's just the truth.
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>>34474151
Stop watching short-form ragebait content about women and dating and dicks. Get off tiktok, get off twitter, get off instagram reels, get off youtube shorts, your algorithm has turned into a psychosexual self-harm mechanism and you can't handle it right now.
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>>34474151
>stop desiring sex
>dick size irrelevant now
>become enlightened
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>>34475600
>Women aren't really chasing orgasms.
Keep right on telling yourself that.
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>>34475600
Your humiliation fetish isn't "the truth" faggot

>>34474427
This anon is probably right. I remember similar threads with solid advice/perspectives but every time OP is a major faggot who just sinks deeper into his humiliation fetish, they don't actually want help
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>>34475874
They aren't lol. Most women either fall down two paths when it comes to sex; gaining pleasure from the man gaining pleasure. Or being filled up. Most women don't even orgasm from penetration, but they still chase it. Why? Because either pleasuring or being filled makes them feel fulfilled. When they seek after orgasms, they either want clit stimulation, or even bigger dicks. You guys can say what you want to make this man feel better about his circumstances, and make y'all's feel better maybe. But on average this is the truth. On average women want 7 inches and up for pleasure.
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>>34474151
Who gives a rat's ass

Do what's pleasurable to you and don't give a fuck what pleasures the foid

That will ironically pleasure the foid more

And vice versa too for the foid
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>>34474151
11cm is around my size.
It's fine.
I've never had a girl off put by it.
But then again, I've never done any random hookups or casual sex. It was always with girls where there was more connection.
The term "I love you so much your 2 inches feels like 6" is true.
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>>34475600
Not even 30 replies in and you already blew your cover in this silly bait fetish thread. You are wearing a skirt and a buttplug aren't you? Try being not so obvious when you post again tomorrow. Sage.
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>>34474188
I have an average dick and every woman I've fucked has gone insane, sometimes literally insane even, for me.
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>>34474151
I have a below avg dick (not micro).
Ive had multiple sluts tell me Im the best theyve ever had.

I guess it would be nice to have more, but Im making due with what Ive got.
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>>34476349
Whatever you gotta do to cope. I'm not trying to put any man down. I'm simply stating the truth here. He can take this knowledge and apply it positively. Like I said, he can just go down the route of not giving a fuck if the girl gets pleasure or not from his small dick. Just be a man hoe who pumps and dumps. Because women aren't going to stick around for him and his small penis, he should just be a hoe.
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>>34474151
You can allow yourself to form a mission without women
Just do whatever you're interested in and fuck the amount of risk
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>>34476017
>On average women want 7 inches and up for pleasure.
This guy has never actually spoken to a woman. Being punched in the cervix is painful.
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>>34474151
It's an environmental issue dumbass nigger. if you have a small car you should drive it in narrow roads not the grand canyon
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>>34474151
>How to cope
You're right anon, it's over. Disregard all the normal opinions itt, you're 100% correct. The hivemind commonly known as women only wish to sleep with a specific guy named Chad Chadderton and his 25 inch dick. He lives in Pennsylvania and services most women nearby. Sometimes he'll have a tour to satisfy some of the global demand. That's where feminism and hypersexuality brought us. Of course most women can't get dem 25 inches, but they'll settle for the local Chad. They find him with the convenient "match with the closest big dick" button on Tinder. The secret Jew world government actually has all our dick sizes in a database, obviously. Tinder is allowed to borrow the data, though they only get the length. That sometimes leads to unfortunate situations where some girls get matched with very long pencil dicks, which is obviously not good enough.

Anyway, your only hope is to embrace the cuckold role OP. Nothing wrong with it. Women still need providers, after all. You get a wife and a lot of kids you can bond with. Make sure to install Tinder as soon as you make the choice in your mind, the Jews will immediately flag you as a cuck and you'll get a match in no time. Then If you're lucky you're gonna get a wife who's nice with you may even get to have a lot of kinky sex, I've heard that modern women are really into it, you know:
>Watching Chads fuck her
>Cleaning up the loads
>Getting chastity and orgasm denial from your hot wife
>Eating her pussy every day
>Getting pegged from her
>Getting to fuck her (with dildos of course)
>Getting to fap in her presence
You know, none of these is a guarantee, but most modern women are ok with at least one or two of these I think. If you play your cards we'll, you're gonna have no problems. That's my advice, OP, as a fellow objective person. Let me know how it works out.
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I recommend circumcission. It makes your dick ten times longer. If you are American (non-jewish, non-arab) and are already circumcissied then I recommend suicide :).
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>>34477862
Women's vaginas expand pretty deep. I'm 6.5 and have never felt the cervix in my life with the 10 girls I've been with. Plus, I said 7 based off of data where they ask women the size they prefer based off of perception. A woman's vagina on average can expand up to 8 inches or more. What I'm telling op isn't to give up, but to just stop caring about the pleasure of the woman. Hit it and move on without care
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Try to find religion I suppose, the ultimate cope for the poor and downtrodden. It gets easier when you stop thinking and just start believing it's part of some grand design.



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