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Why do so many guys assume women don't know how it feels on dating apps or being rejected in general? They have exactly the same experience when job hunting. Except most just move on instead of taking it personally.
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>>34474395
Privileged foid say what. You don't approach, you don't get rejected. Get raped.
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>>34474422
ah ok, so you don't envy all women, just 0.5% of them, got it.
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>>34474395
A woman's success on dating apps is 100% dependent on going to the gym for one year and maintaining a healthy weight. However, for men to get similar results, it would require much more effort and creativity than going to the gym. It requires a man to study how Instagram influencers present themselves and to fake that with the same degree of quality.
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>>34474461
what the fuck are you talking about? what success? if the goal is to find a partner for life, the woman just needs to lower her expectations and the man needs to be himself except confident.
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>>34474395
>>34474442
elabore your experiences, I have no idea how it is for the average woman.
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>>34474475
On dating apps, women rate 80% of men as "Below Average."
https://goodmenproject.com/featured-content/women-say-80-of-men-are-below-average/
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Because as a man you use dating apps and realize nearly every girl on it has at least 10 dudes in their messages lol. I am lucky if I get a match once every couple months. I haven't felt the touch of a woman let alone texted one in 6 plus years. It is really fucking lonely but idk I guess it builds character.
>muh jobs
Fuck no, in my field you get a DEI stat boost that most applicants wish they had lol.
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I had really bad experience and on tinder since i was looking for true love (marriage and kids) and i won’t match with fatsos, browns, niggers or people that only want one night stands or reject
marriage and kids. Yes, had matches but not useful matches.
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>>34474395
Bc apps are literally designed to give women more power than they should have in the dating market.
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>>34474475
>and the man needs to be himself except confident.
If she even matches with him that is.
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>>34474395
Don't women now dominate the payroll in USA?
Why do you even come up with false analogies
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>>34474395
There's no way you're this fucking ignorant on the male experience. For men it's like 1/1000, for women it's like 1/2
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>>34474961
tough luck. women fight for jobs and get rejected just like that as well. happened to me today. just because someone did not like me. they told to my recruiter I was unmotivated, which was bullshit - I just refused to ask too many questions because I have had jobs like this in the past and somehow it is my fault there is awkward silence during conversation. since charisma is something that cannot be changed, I will probably be blacklisted at this recruiter from now on. the interviewer was a guy btw. but guess what, I will try at another company (with or without recruiter) tomorrow again, because I am not a whiny bitch like "men" on 4chan
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>>34475027
You're fucking retarded. We're all fighting for jobs. But even then, women objectively have an easier time getting hired in middle class jobs. Just shut the fuck up and be happy you were born a women, because society was designed for you, by men.
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Because it's not the same. There are similarities, but it's not the same overall. What you should be asking is "why can't men empathize and have compassion for women when it comes to online dating?" Because one thing a lot of men don't want to hear is that women are people too with their own interests, emotions and insecurities and that just like men they also have to make decisions based off the 3 promps and 5 pics you're allowed to have on a dating app, which is purposely designed to be as predatory as possible to make you spend money.
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>>34474395
Most guys are too jaded and narcissistic to admit women have feelings too and are unable to self reflect that just because they get matches regularly doesn't mean every guy looks dateable to them.

I'm sure if you told a guy he'd be guaranteed 1000 matches a day he'd be estactic till he sees 1000 ugly bitches who only want him for this wallet.
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>>34474395
A disgruntled employer has never set me up to get jumped because they wanted to fire me.
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>>34474395
I never met a woman who submitted resumes for years and got zero jobs like men do. Women can always get a waitress job or some receptionist bullshit. Women have a major advantage, you can tell in many stores they primarily hire women, and either the manager is a woman and feels more comfortable with women or is a man and hires attractive women. Now OP if you are a troon or a smelly fat ugly obnoxious foid you may have a point though.
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Because women are too afraid to look stupid.
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>>34474461
>>34474475
Both of you are wrong as fuck, here is the distilled, perfect truth:

Women only need to say yes to a lower standard to get a match and sex and love. Sifting through the men means you'll for sure find a good and respectful one.

For men - if you don't work out and have a healthy looking body and face, you will not get a single match. Lowering your standards will not help because you're not getting matches. Not even the ugliest lowest MMR profiles will match with you. That's how bad it is for men

t. I had a dating profile for 10 months on 6 different apps when I was 106kg, and ZERROOOOO REAL MATCHES DURING THAT WHOLE TIME DESPITE SWIPING CONSTANTLY, CHANGING THE PROFILE OFTEN, AND NOT BEING TOO SELECTIVE.

and now at 86kg - a bit of matches. Had an actual date, took her virginity, didn't turn into a relationship but we're friends now.
Have another date on Friday.

I'm 170cm tall. Meaning, I could lose another 20kg until I look truly healthy. Brother. There is a way to go - for ALL of us. And getting matches is ALL about having good photos. I am not making any comments on how to turn those matches into dates, just saying that for men - PHOTOS ARE THE ONLY THING THAT MATTERS FOR GETTING THE GOLDEN TICKET, FOR GETTING IN!!! FOR EVEN HAVING A MATCH!! FOR GETTING, A CHANCE, TO FUCKING TRY!!
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Why do women want to take our incel spaces too? You already took over video games and anime what more do you want?
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>>34474395
>They have exactly the same experience when job hunting.
Yes, that is a difference between women's more mercenary logic when it comes to love and men's more maternal
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>>34475027
If you're not willing to work out a way through then you *are* unmotivated, at least to get the job



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