This is going to kind of long... >Me, 29, F, White>Bf, 27, M, WhiteSo I have a bf of 3 years and we have a son together, plus my other child from my previous marriage. Anyway my bf developed an alcohol and cocaine addiction. He had been physically abusive to me many times. My last straw was when he rammed my hand into some broken glass and I was bleeding a lot. I called the police and he went to jail overnight. The courts had a hearing and placed a protection order against him (it states I can have contact with his family), but ultimately let him out of jail. I contacted his father who lives in a different state and he coordinated with him, to get him into rehab. His parents keep giving me a lot of pressure about working things out once he's out and going to the court house to try and getting the restraining order lifted, because he's taking the steps to work on himself. They also helped me out a little financially before he went into rehab, so I have guilt over that, like I owe it to them to work it out because they helped me.It's almost been a month since he entered into rehab and this time alone has just made me realize I really don't want to be with him anymore or work things out. I just don't know what's the right thing to do.I can recognize that he's trying to work on himself, but I'm just at the point I don't care anymore and too many bridges have been burned. I'm genuinely happy by myself with my kids.What's the right thing to do, should I try to work it out or just move on with my life? If I do move on, how do I break this to him and his parents?
Legitimately hope you and and your first child get raped and murdered, you ungrateful, privileged whore.
I think you need one more baby daddy.
Fuck him, people dont change, they are incapable of it in 99% of cases. Move away and cut contact. Let this be a teaching lesson to both of you. No kid needs a violent druggie deadbeat for a dad.
>>34474416Leave him. Normally i don't say this.
>>34474438Unlike a whore mother that used feminazi gynocentric gestapo to go after the father?
>>#34474448I'm not a whore my previous husband died.
>>34474456should've been you and your child
>>34474448Stop projecting your own scenarios at anonymous people on the internet, retard
>>34474416OP, on behalf of the human race I apologize for the trolls who have replied so far. Let's say he wasn't a violent abusive alcoholic. You have looked at your life and concluded that you don't want him in it any more. That is 100% your right, and all you owe him is some basic civility in the parting and the opportunity to be in his child's life.The fact that he IS a violent abusive alcoholic only gives you further reasons to follow your instinct.The one area you may want to bend on is his parents. They have some right to see their grandchild and the child should not be deprived of their love - but ONLY if they accept and support your decision regarding their son.
>>34474416Yes, obviously you should leave. This should be a no brainer. Listen to yourself when you say you don't want to be with him.
>>34474416>boyfriend>have a son togetherYou built your house on sand. That's the problem. I don't know what to tell you, your boyfriend will almost certainly not sober up and change. Either choice you pick, be either leaving him or staying with him, will lead to suffering. You will have to live with this decision for the rest of your life. I can't tell you what to do, but I can tell you what I would do: I would leave. Why? Because you have kids, do you want them to be around a violent drug addict that beats their mom and can kill them at any time? They will certainly resent you if you stay, and if they don't die, they could end up following on your boyfriend's footstep.
>>34474456You're lying
>>34474586it's literally the situation at hand, feminazi scum.All your female relatives, including infants, should get raped.
>>34474416Up to you what you want to do but one thing to consider if you do decide to break up is that you will almost definitely be coparenting with him. Doesnt matter how shitty he is most states will force 50/50 regardless and even if he does "clean up his act for good" you are going to be stuck with the logistical nightmare of pickup/dropoff for years to come.If you want to end it with him and dont want to coparent, your best bet is to immediately get on his parents good side and work out a solution where you keep custody but keep them in their lives. That way they dont support him in fear of losing access to the kids.Not sure what your plans are going forward but just want to point out the real pain in the ass hurdles you will have to deal with if you break up with him
>>34474484you are a jeet kill yourself
>>34475349Niggers and Browns like you should get shot. You are infesting your ugly ness into white societies
>>34474416Breaking up with him because you want to break up with him is fine. But if he actually has sorted himself out (if!) you're going to have to work out some kind of joint custody arrangement for the child.
