Simply put, I really hate being male. I don't and will not consider life as worth living if I can't be female. How do I cope otherwise? Should I just kms?
jerk off, srsly having glans and foreskin is something heavenly, thanks god for giving me a frenulum <33
>>34475425I don't fucking want to have a penis!
>>34475445why? dont you like it when your foreskin glides over the glans?
>>34475450I don't want to be a fucking subhuman male, do you not understand?
>>34475456Nothing you can do about it. You'll be a man forever. But, in all honesty, embrace your masculinity. It's dope. Men are the builders of our civilization. We are the structure of our world. Own it. It's either that, or be in denial for the rest of your life. That'll bring suffering and delusion and even more pain. Your best odds are just embracing it
>>34475572>embrace your masculinityNo
>>34475414>How do I copeSurrendering to the situation, saying "i will never", is already a coping mechanism. There is certainty in surrender, certainty feels safe. Even if the situation is worse because of it. Don't cope, don't surrender, don't listen to the sadists and cowards telling you to give up, you'll only regret it. Fight until you get what you want and be who you want to be.
>>34475602Well, why? Let's get to the cause of this. What is so bad about being a man? What makes men subhuman in your eyes? If men are so subhuman and bad, why do women love men? Why is embracing your manhood so bad? >>34475666There's literally nothing he can do about his biological makeup. He is destined to be a man, because he already is a man. That's reality. Fighting it will just put him into a position of delusion. He sounds very non delusional right now, which is good. It means he is still present in reality. What you are telling him is truly toxic and evil, you are trying to push him into the void of detachment from reality.
you guys are still arguing instead of toying with your frenulum and appreciating what being a man feels like?
>>34475681>What you are telling him is truly toxic and evilIs freedom evil? Is it so wrong to let people live their lives, even if we don't understand them? Your way of thinking is a form of self-harm, and you spread it to others to feel validated. I'm not saying you had the same thoughts as OP, but it's very common for people to cope with this kind of thing by dragging others down with them.
>>34475414First of all, why do you hate being a male ?
>>34475681>What is so bad about being a man?I hate being one, that's it, there's no particular reason beyond that
>>34475414>Should I just kms?please, less tranny threads
>>34475746I'm not stopping him from doing anything, nor do I have the power to. I'm simply just trying to steer him away from delusion. To identity as something that you are objectively not, is truly delusional. It's a sad case, because both mainstream roads presented to him lead to suffering. His only road to true happiness is acceptance and embracing what he is, and not chasing what he isnt. To be so deluded that you think you are something that you are objectively not, is not freedom, it is to be a slave to your own detached identity. To constantly need to acceptance of everyone else's perception for you to feel real. You are projecting, you are trying to drag him onto your road. I'm trying to lift him up into a better path. One that doesn't end in self harm. >>34475773So your suffering has no reason? No, I don't buy it. There is something that makes you hate being a man. Do you see men in a negative perception? And want to stay away from that concept of man you have in your mind?
>>34475414Put an end to your life once and for all. You’ll never be a woman, and you’ll never be happy.
>>34476058>His only road to true happiness is acceptance and embracing what he is, and not chasing what he isntThat's pretty much what i said. His road to happiness is acceptance and embracing what he wants to become, and not restricting himself just to appeal to cowards and normiecattle.>You are projecting, you are trying to drag him onto your roadI'm just directing him to the road i think he should take for his own sake. I don't want to change my gender, i just know people who do/did, and i know the ones who gave up on it are miserable.
>>34476337>That's pretty much what I said>What he wants to becomeThere is a huge distinction between want and is. This isn't a career path, or some other doable reality like becoming a doctor. We're talking about sex. He hates being a man, there is no pretending that will change his sex. A man and woman are way more than just how you act and what you wear, it's a biological reality. Gender is bullshit. A man can be feminine, and a woman can be masculine, while still being a man and woman. Because personality is fluid while sex is binary. Acting like a woman doesn't make you a woman. Gender is a societal construct used to identify sex. But it's been deconstructed and gotten rid of. Now men and women can be fluid in their personality while still being men and women.
>>34476162>You’ll never be a womanThat makes me depressed
>>34477807You don't even know what it feels like to feel like a woman. You only know what you think it feels like. How the could you possibly want to be a woman without knowing that?
>>34477942Who says you need to know what it feels like to feel like a woman to want to be a woman? I didn't even claim that
>>34475746Lies, deception, dishonesty, and placating the delusions of others are all evil things.
is there something stopping you from transitioning ? why do you think you can't become a woman ?
>>34479530Honestly I really find only being a cis woman acceptable to me. But even if I wanted to transition, I live in a bad country for that, and I don't think I'll pass anyway. None of it will also give me a female socialization or voice.
>>34479552if you're at a point where you're thinking about ending your life because of that, I would still recommend to try changing country if you can, and transition. Although it's not exactly what you want, I think it's worth giving it a chance before dying. Sorry for not being able to give you better advices. I hope you the best
>>34479690>try changing country if you canThat's nearly impossible
>>34479690Wouldn't change the fact that he'd still be a man. Just because you act and look like a woman, doesn't make you a woman. Op will be a man for the rest of his life
