How to make friends without begging/convincing people to like you? I don't want to brood, I want to learn to do it the right way.
>>34475545stop being a lesbian maybe, should help
>>34475558Well. Part of my inquiry is to stop being a people pleaser for other people's approval as well. You illiterate, flagellant faggot.I'm bisexual anyway. If I find a cute effeminate greek-like boy to care for, totally would.
>>34475580boys dont like socially retarded freaks who dont shower and have no manners, sorry but no one is gonna find you
>>34475588I'm assertive and I initiate. I got small talk down too. Don't need someone to find me. Its more that, I find myself constantly as the initiator. And its me talking at them, and never really a back and forth. And I want to get better at maintaining friendships. Doesn't have to be romantic either. Just would like closer connections with people, and to stop sucking at it. I'm an autist of some sort too, and get lost in stuff like neuroscience. Almost trying to find a people methodology. But I imagine that's the wrong way to go about it, no?
>>34475545>>34475642people can tell when you're desperate for it and it puts them off.you talk to people because you want friends, not because you want to be THEIR friend, and you're probably willing to compromise too much for it. that's not how a normal person who has friends behaves, and that tells people that there's something wrong with you.
>>34475580>bisexualStill bad
>>34475814I try and ask people about their specific interests, what they like, and I share their specific hobbies. Yeah. I find they're still curt, snippy, and just generally trying to wrap up talking with me. So I'm still confused.
>>34475642you sound awkward and you're probably ugly is why you're having so much trouble
>>34475545If you have to be the one that always initiates then you very well know someone isn't worthwhile, you could try bringing up your concerns & if they dismiss it, stop focusing on that person. Stop being desperate, it is a telltale sign of fragile self-esteem & depression. Never settle for one-sidedness.
