Been with my girlfriend for 1.5 years, things were going well at first, shared mindset, hot rough sex..etc since then things started to change; intimacy became less frequent, she's less driven (didnt go out to see the sun in more than a month), got fat, doesnt work out, no job or commitment to anything..for my personal reasons, It's in my best interest to stay, but I need to seek my fix from some other place, advice on that, I need a female friend (which she forbid me from) to fulfill the spiritual gap, and a someone who i can fuck no mixing both, i cannot get caught. We live together but she's moving out soon, I'll start moving then..How to achieve my goals and keep everything hidden? I am extremely unhappy but I need to play along for now
the relationship is already over, you just havent come to terms with it yet
>>34477119she will never change, dump her dude
>>34477119any reason you cant simply communicate with her?
>>34478186I've tried many many times, I tried for almost a year, try to wake her up at 7 so we can spend the morning together until i got tired. cook her healthy food instead of trash. Get her to run together. Fix her CV so she doesnt get rejected for the thousand time. Supported all of her hobbies that she could make money out of. All and all, you can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink...All I wanted from her is to have a shared routine but she has 0 discipline so I stopped bothering and focused on myself because at some point I realized I was talking to her like a father, scolding her and all, i am too young to play husband, nevertheless a father
>>34478161I can't, my life would be ruined financially, I am in too deep with her family any disturbances would mess me up so so bad >>34478141Maybe, maybe not, but i feel like it will never be the same as when I met her. I think so lowly of her, I lost some respect for her.. and not because she showed weakness or comfort, shes just isnt the version she sold me of herself at the beginning
>>34478305>I am in too deep with her familyhow brown are you exactly?
>>34478305nigger 1.5yrs is NOTHING.My wife cucked me after 6 years, 3 of which I suffered due to sunk cost fallacy just like you. You think I wasn't in to deep? I was to inherit her house, dude.Let go and move on. Cheating will only make you feel guilty in the end.trust me.
>>34478309Whiteboi and a ching chong no browns here, they are sponsoring my degree >>34478319man I am a pussy when it comes to women for some reason, ive cute shitty family members when they chimp out but women got me in a chokehold because I think it will improve desu. My thought process is that when she moves out things will improve alot for me on a personal level, and she's gonna move out to a much better environment with her rich family
>>34478338chinks are brown too, they have the same brown people authoritarian parenting culturefinish the degree (how long can that be lol) and BAIL
>>34478299You girlfriend sounds like me. I don’t have a job and i’m still living with my parents and study. i feel bad for my boyfriend but he is really understanding. I also have that issue with going to bed early and waking up early. Lost my previous job because of that but i’m also ill so life is more exhausting. It’s my Thyroid. I am staying hot for my boyfriend though. That’s the least i can do. Hope he impregnates me soon so he can’t leave
>>34477119> fatare you living together? if not, dump her before she gets pregnant and guilt trips you into marrying her
