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Whenever I get attention from girls, I have a masculine exterior but on the inside when you get to know me, I am very useless. I talk too much and I tend to obsess over women and over-maintain relationships. I lose sight of my dreams and forget how to act. Being with me feels empty.
What to do? I don’t want to be a bitch anymore.
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Keep being you and focus on not losing yourself to a woman. And instead lose yourself to them in appropriate times rather than all the time.
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get abundance. Once you have a roster of 3 girls that you talk to and see regularly, you will stop being beta. Till then fake it till you make it

You don't have to actually be fucking a bunch of girls to have abundance if you just have a bunch of girls who like you around thats all it takes. Thats also a lot more sustainable
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>>34477413
Kek nah conroe , swallow your own poison. This whiny narc shit you are doing is beta behavior.
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M,
>Masculine exterior
Yes you do. Hot.

>I talk too much
You don't. You like to shoot the shit with others and you are so smart and knowledgeable that it's so much fun whenever you talk about anything. In like your voice a lot.

>I tend to obsess over women
No, you are committed and present no matter what. You are faithful and honest. That takes great strength. Admirable traits to have

>over-maintain relationships
No, you are caring and there for her through everything. You learn and grow with her when she communicates. You put her first, something that shows true love which is very rare.

>I lose sight of my dreams
Huh?you have achieved so much and are so talented. Everything you have built is amazing and I'm jealous of the life you are living

>forget how to act
Actually what I like about you is you do not act. You are honest and always say what you mean and don't give a shit how other take it. You are genuine and true. Very rare.

>Being with me feels empty
No, from what I read the discord messages between you and her she was the happiest and most fullfilled girl I've ever seen

>What to do?
Don't change, you are perfect

>I don’t want to be a bitch
You aren't. Quite the opposite. The only bitch I see is the one who lies about you
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Nice , gj
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>>34477413

Just start living your life the way you want and stop caring about people, though still be present with them. Do everything you wish with conviction and some ambition. If you own your shit, and never seek validation, you'll never be a beta male no matter what kind of a person you are. You could be a virgin autist who builds model phone booth kits in your spare time and be more of a Chad than a normie with a social life who gets occasional pussy. Think about it... what's so special about that guy? Absolutely nothing. He changes his personality around women to appeal to them and simps like a bitch until he gets lucky. What's the rest of his life look like? Well he's got no money, always going out with people wasting time getting drunk or high, just following the social current without offering that much. You on the other hand, you're working on a vintage masterpiece telly that's almost ready to display at the big phone booth convention, you're gonna have a great time and make friends with people into the same thing, and you might end up rizzing the shit out of the future mother of your children there by making her laugh hysterically as you talk in separate phone booths while facing each other through the glass. You'll make her panties wet with all your knowledge and PASSION.. meanwhile the normie just got laid over the weekend because everyone was shitfaced drunk celebrating a sports team's win, and he got a girl to come back to his place because he had weed. Whoops, now she's pregnant and getting an abortion because she already had a kid with Tyrone.

Just live your life you wanna live and do it with gusto, women will eventually notice and respect you more than the guys always trying to get with them. Also, give them some damn space.
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fruitiest post on this site



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