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how do i stop being just a shadow of my older brother?

I'm 22 years old, working at his company he founded with his friend
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you will never so just stop caring and ENJOY
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Stop comparing yourself to him and start worrying about what you want. Do you want to found your own company? If you do, then work towards that goal, otherwise find another goal and work towards that while working for his company. Think about the things you want out of life and pursue those, instead of putting yourself in your brother's shadows and chasing the same things he chased.
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>>34479474
That's just one part of you. Add something else. Maybe one day he will think "All I am is the company and my little brother is so much else". Maybe read A Separate Peace by Jon Knowles.
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>>34479499
Everytime i talk to someone that knows both of us, they always talk about my brother in my presence, never about me, my interests, what i am doing, nothing

>>34479496
i want to change, i used to not care when i was a teenager but now i need to grow, i cant rely on others or i am cooked for the rest of my life
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>>34479554
this IS your life idiot
you need to learn CONTENDNESS desperately



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